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a geek needs some advice

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don’t get me wrong,I try to do that but it\’s like after about 10 minutes into the conversation most women just seem to drop the convo and don\’t seem that interested anymore.I\’ll try something simple between those moments like \”so what do you have planned for tomorrow?\” or \”later on the week\” \”holiday coming up\”,usually response – nothing or I\’ll say \”what did you do this past weekend,have any fun usual response \”just hung out with some friends\” etc…..it\’s kind of like it puts me in this \”dead space\” with them and then there\’s the awkward silence….much different from the \”comfortable silence\” then I have to find my way out of the conversation with something like \”well hey I gotta go do…whatever call me later\” and they never do….it happens to me almost every time

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I understand your frustration, Its not easy just throwing yourself to the wolves. Something that might help when you talk to a person dont wait for them to start the conversation and be striaghtforward and clear in what you want in a partner. You should be able to tell right away if that person is interested or not. Most women like the man to take charge.

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Most of my life I spent more or less afraid of relationships simply because of my social anxiety,I hated being told no by women because I hated the rejection.I only just recently started throwing myself out there just recently as being available but I can\’t seem to get a lot of conversations initiated and when I do after like 3 days I find myself running out of things to talk about.Does anybody else have this problem?

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