Dating is really not about Dating - Part 2
You will be able to gauge yourself according to other people in that party and dress appropriately. The point is, you will make an effort to look at least half-decent for the occasion. So, instead of winding up in a confused whirlpool of a state prior to the date, the first task is to train your mind that you are just going to any of these parties.
Stop the urge to ask for advice from other people on what you should do or shouldn’t do during the date. Other people love to poke their noses and want to know all the juicy details of your date and in their worldly wisdom give you advice that is sure to succeed. Remember, your aim is to turn this date into ‘not a date’. Do dress up as you if you were going to any other occasion and that’s it, then leave the event to unfold by itself. You will find that towards the end of the date, your dating partner will be positively captivated by you. The secret is that whenever you want something to go without flaw, it usually doesn’t but when you don’t care for it so much, it turns out to be better than you expected. The same thing applies when you are dating, so go ahead and give it a try, date without thinking of it as a date.
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