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If you could time travel back to the past?
Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
I recently watched a documentary by the famous physicist Stephen Hawking called ‘Into the Universe with Stephen Hawking’ which comes in 3 episodes. I was particularly intrigued by the 2nd episode on ‘Time Travel’. Here Stephen Hawking describes the feasibility of time travel and muses over traveling in the past in which he concludes would be impossible. The reason for this would be that paradoxes would prevent this from happening. For example, if you could go back in time and by chance, your interference caused your own death then how could you possibly exist in the future. This is a paradox. However, forget the theoretical aspects of time travel and ask yourself why people would want to travel back to the past.
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It may be that some of us would want to go back in time and rectify the wrong doing or change something they regret doing. You have to examine people’s motives and reasons for going back in time. Many historians would love to see the past and corroborate their findings through history books to actual events. Paleontologists would love to find out what happened millions of years ago and how dinosaurs became extinct. Evolutionary theorists would love to know the beginnings of life and when the first seed of life actually sprouted on earth. Religious people would go even further back and look at when the hand of God created the universe. For whatever reasons, it becomes a much more personal matter when you want to go back to the timeline of your own existence. It may indicate a sense of unhappiness with your life and a desire to have taken a different direction. Personally, my interest for going back would be to simply observe but not change any events.
If you do dwell in forgotten events and regret having made the decisions you made, then it is possible that you are not giving yourself a chance for the future. The future holds a wonderment for change and looking forward to what lies ahead with all of our dreams and ambitions are key to our present well being. If we don’t dream of a future and take no action, we simply wallow in our dreams and can never hope to make progress. If we wallow too much from our past events, we embody a sense of fear and a reluctance towards change. No one knows what actually lies ahead but all of us can strive to be something or not. Look back into the past and see that the world has unfolded for you in a way that you could have never imagined. It is impossible to control the future just as it is impossible to have imagined a life of the past. Forget the past, put your best foot forward….always.
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Supercharge your Date with this Exercise - Part 2
Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
The ability to think in the present time or in the zone has great benefits. One must do, be, do, be, do, be… as the famous physicist Amit Goswami explained in his documentary ‘The Quantum Activist’. Here, he refers to the practice of being in the moment and then taking action. For supercharging your date, you need to be in a state of ‘Being’ and then ‘Doing’. Follow these easy steps.
Let’s say you have a few hours before your date. Stop whatever you are doing and sit down in a quiet spot such as on a bed or a chair. Then close your eyes and try to push all thoughts out of your head, relax and take short deep breaths. Your heart should should slow down and once you have completely relaxed which could be as much as ten minutes, just maintain that state as long as you can. You should now be in a deep state of relaxation, this is the state where you are in your present moment in time. Hold that state for a bit longer and then wake up. If you have done this exercise correctly, you will be feel different to what you were feeling before the exercise. Now follow instinctively, whatever your mind conjures up. The thoughts and actions that follow will vary from one person to another. The important thing is that these thoughts emanate from a higher level of plane which is beyond anyone’s capacity of understanding. These thoughts can direct you to a greater and higher path that you could not have done by yourself. It is what Dr Wayne Dyer also calls the ‘Power of Intention’.
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Supercharge your Date with this Exercise - Part 1
Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
How does one supercharge a date?
The dating game is a game of chance and many people unwittingly go into it without preparation or thoughts of any kind. Of course, the presentation is important, the mood has to be right and you have high expectations of your date. Event despite all these preparations, we may still end up with nothing. So what gives?
Supercharge your Date with this Exercise - Part 1
The problem is that single folks can give off negative vibes to their dates. It is possible that you haven’t dated for a year and you may think that your super charming personality will mask the inner disappointments and desires that you have been covering up for so long. Well guess what, people are generally a lot smarter than you think and will pick up those signals. Okay, so you can’t be straightforward and blurb about how long you sit in front of a TV, eating munchies hoping this day would come soon. This would positively throw off the other person for sure. So what exactly is the trick to the date that would leave each of you wanting more? The trick is to supercharge your date. Here is how.
I refer back to the great book by Eckhart Tolle called the ‘Power of Now’. In this book he describes noise as anything infiltrating your mind that takes you away from the present time. For example, many people don’t want to live in their present time, they are constantly thinking ahead of themselves ie. what they are going to do in the next few mins., hour or day.
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Dr Dato: Dating Fantasies and Truth of LA Singles
Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
Los Angeles is ranked as the third best city for singles by Forbes. A city loaded with singles, nightlife, arts and culture, the concerts, Universal studios, theme parks, beaches, hiking trails, the sun, rollerblading, boardwalks, the observatory, amazing restaurants, shopping malls makes it one of the most exciting cities to live in. The openness of most people and the friendly fit women appears to be the perfect blend to find a date easily.
Dr Dato: Dating Fantasies and Truth of LA Singles
The upscale nightclubs and lounges are known for their plush interiors and trendy music which are where the crowd gets unruly after drinks. The popularity of these clubs attracts the hottest performers and musicians in the trade. Lot of venues offers live music that adds a different charm to the place. The dance clubs are the place to get into the dance rhythm even if you have two left feet.
Los Angeles becomes the ideal place to make life so complete and fulfilling for LA singles. Find the right person to date and life is a scripted romantic Hollywood movie. The most good looking guys and sexy gals are residents here. The singles in the world dream to find an LA single as his/her partner. Each one searches for that perfect mate who will be the soul mate. Dreaming is easy and fun but converting the dream into reality is tougher here.
The most vibrant city in the world where one can enjoy life and relax is facing a major issue on the dating front. LA singles ratio is totally skewed. Women have more options to choose their men so it is tougher for her to decide who the best choice is. This can be an advantage for the singles world to find the handsome hunk as a date or soul mate.
Distance is another barrier to intimacy. LA has an area of about 5000+ square miles and a traffic that will drive you crazy. Even if you have found the cute person you are interested in, the traveling time and traffic pose an obstacle which one has to overcome every time. The energy that is required to overcome this potential barrier is called the activation energy. Science tells us that higher the activation energy, the less the chance of the occurrence of the event so people are less likely to meet often and thereby remain casual friends. Attempting to meet somebody 20 miles away is like traveling along the length of Manhattan twice or crossing a few borders in Europe! If you are in another state then don’t book your ticket for LA but any nearby airport to sideline the traffic and commotion at the airport.
The more often you meet the stronger the relationship develops. With distance most of the people are in cars so there is minimal probability of meeting someone regularly as you don’t tend to walk around the block. Traffic and bottlenecks force even the most punctual people to miss an appointment. Showing up late makes you feel unworthy even if it is beyond your control. This develops into disinterest which evolves as a dating obstacle in LA.
Though LA is loaded with lots of entertainment and attractions like night clubs and museums the fun factor for the LA singles is much lower as compared to other cities in USA. Night life shuts as 1 am and there is lack of public transport too. If one has to drive back home, one has to keep sober. Lesser the party time, lesser drinking which amounts to lesser fun. This also keeps people away from partying and increases the stress levels.
Each person needs a companion to relax and unwind. The best option for LA singles to find a companion from amongst the ones who are in close proximity either at work or school. Relax and unwind with your friends and enjoy the beautiful city of LA whether you are single or dating. Open your mind and think of the various options available, enjoy your hobby, form a group and reconnect with real people.
Must Read Dating Advice for Women
Tuesday, January 29th, 2013
It is almost impossible to understand the mind of a criminal. Stray incidents of attacks do happen in the real dating world. Women are usually the target as they are looking for intimacy and do not look beyond the façade of the charming guy. Follow the dating advice for women and don’t become a victim of an assault that will shake you from the core of your very being.
Must Read Dating Advice for Women
Basic safety guidelines for women:
• Meet at a public place, use your own transportation
• Don’t assume the man is safe, follow your intuition and always inform your friend where and who are with
• Think beforehand and decide your limit for sexual/physical contact. Always go easy on drinks
• Don’t pour out all details. Give only your cell number and not residence number as one can easily get lots of personal information from where you are living
• Observe odd or abnormal behavior and be wary. Keep an exit plan ready to end that relationship when you feel uncomfortable
Hey women, when you are meeting new people it is important to look beyond the smaller things and think about the bigger issues like what you expect from a partner. It’s a jungle out there ladies, make your safety the top priority as only you are responsible for safety and well being.
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