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Gender Differences - Understanding the dual nature of reactivity & proactivity - Part 2

Gender Differences - Understanding the dual nature of reactivity & proactivity - Part 1

That being said, unless you have a large body of interests with your partner, you are most likely to fall into one of the two categories in the relationship. Though I could be wrong, since numerous closed studies would be needed between couples in order to elucidate the following facts. One of the individuals within the relationships will need to take on each of the roles ie. reactivity and proactivity. In many relationships where the men are the most masculine and the strongest of the genders, the role of proactivity may go to them whereas the females will have a more reactivity type role. Based on my experience, these type of roles can have serious underpinnings and grievances to the entire relationship if it’s not properly understood.

Take the case of a young couple where the female has understands her role to be fixed in any men vs women relationship. She would expect her partner to make most of the moves regarding where they go on a date and what he chooses to do or decide. It is very similar to the animal kingdom where the male is the predator when it comes to hunting females for mating. In this situation, the male over time may have certain expectations from the females and the female needs to be able to see this and play a more active role. However, it is entirely possible that a female who appears to be in a reactive role is ‘in fact’ playing a subtle ‘proactive’ role. For example, she induces a reactionary role within the partner just simply by observation and making subtle moves. This could also stem from the women’s survival skills to hold on to her partner so that she has someone who can father her children and will always be around for this.

It is a cautionary tale of love & conquests that we hear of from many romantic novels and movies. The roles of proactivity and reactivity are significant factors that come into play in a relationship without many men or women being aware of it. For some people who are skilled in the art of seduction, they may have a good handle on this technique and many men and women may unwittingly fall for this. Next time you find yourself being pulled in a certain direction, you may want to think for a moment whether you are in fact playing a proactive or a reactive role.

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    its the little things that make a difference. treating your wife just like you did when you two were first dating. taking her out to the movies and to dinner…telling her you love her.

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    I s complicated to date career driven men.

  4. nensi says:

    I don’t like the fact of comments when you are not earning points

  5. suzana_20012 says:

    they should trust each other

  1. David says:

    Women cheat for the same reasons that men cheat.

  2. Donald says:

    women cheat because they do not love their man

  3. Sonny says:

    Women cheat because lack of sex with their partner

  4. Kennedy says:

    There are several resons why women cheat on guys.
    1. Either the love they found in the guy is no longer there or she found out that the man equally cheats on her.
    2. The man does not satisfy her either financially or sexually, (quick release)
    3. The man does not make out time to stay with his woman, (women need it alot)

  5. shah alam says:

    Women cheats a men, there is lot of reason behind it,
    a. World so fast now so most of the women like change there boyfriend like their dress.
    b. Money is the second god when a lady guess somebody is more then her present boy friend.
    c. Sex is important part in human life so it is also a reason for cheat or break up.

  6. kevinrow says:

    there is a lot of resons why woman cheat.
    it could be that her man is never there when she needs him.
    sex is not there any more .
    or just the need to try new things that she would not ask her partner for.
    but you might avoid it if as a man you talk and hear what a woman needs and don’t just think of your self.

  7. franky101 says:

    Not every woman cheats,its just that women sometimes don’t really know what they want,so they are confused and fall into a mess when there are situations on ground

  8. theone says:

    I know some women cheat just to feel a larger man inside them , its not that they dont love there partners its just sometimes nice to have something larger every now and then

  9. Zakaria says:

    Frau ding /Money seeking/time pas/fun

  10. Susan says:

    Not every woman cheats,its just that women sometimes don’t really know what they want,so they are confused and fall into a mess when there are situations on ground

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  1. David says:

    I like Virginia Beach, Va.

  2. shah alam says:

    The most romantic place in this world as per my own opinion is heart if a person have good heart and honesty then she or he can make romance anywhere in this world.

  3. kevinrow says:

    any place can be the most romantic place if your with the one you love. it is the person your with if your heart is true then it dont matter to be in love and have that person love you is what romance is not the place but the one you love and the time your with them.

  4. Jim says:

    My favorite romantic place was a in garden restaurant in Florence Italy table. It’s was the only place I had been where each table was set up for only two. Large potted plants were arranged so as to give dining couples the feel of intimacy.

  5. Zakaria says:

    At the bed with wife

  6. Carrie says:

    I would have to say Paris. Its so beautiful and amazing there. The resturants are nice and the Hotels are spectacular. The beds are soft and Just nice. It will be the most beautiful place that I can recall. since. But Ive also been to Germany. and Its nice there as well. But Pairs is like if you want to enjoy art and Etc. Its very nice

  7. susan says:

    my Favorite romantic place was in the Beach been around with my Love one ….Thats was the only place i like to be with my Loving one

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  1. David says:

    Everyone is entitled to make a mistake once in a while.

  2. franky101 says:

    singles would definitely grow up to become married one day cos it has been ordained by God who has given the man a woman has companion,and He says,be fruitful and multiply……

  3. kevinrow says:

    for some to get married is to show commitment.

  4. Zakaria says:

    (And of His Signs is that He created for you mates from your own selves that you may
    take comfort in them, and He ordained affection and mercy between you. there are indeed
    signs in that for apeoplect.le who ref

  5. james says:

    Marriage is great in all but we all make mistakes n it usually ends in divorc…I say u wanna get married spend better than 7 years with that someone then decide on marriag…

  6. Dan says:

    Marriage is making a statement. People designed to be paired - no one by design meant to be alone. This “I don’t need to be married” yet you engage in married activities is pure crap - there is a day of reckoning and your life will be severely tainted by your activities.

    Bottom line: marriage is the exhuberent celebration of not being single — masked by saying I’m in love, or I found my soulmate, or God brought us together ( which hopefully is true PROV 19:14 ), or ….

    Everyone is free to choose whether to pursue marriage or not. God did not call anyone, even Paul, to be single except for two and two only: Jeremiah & Elijah. God was very detailed and specific in the calling and why and what the assignment was.

    I vote for marriage even though divorced - I am preparing myself and eagerly look forward to my nnext marriage, which I enter into for remainder of my life or hers, whichever comes first.

  7. Kadince says:

    Getting merried is the most natural thing to do when you have found the right
    person. It should not be a game but a serious commitment . God intended & created
    marriage to be secrate between a man & woman. I feel that it is a promise to love & honor
    One another . And by getting merry you are saying that .

  8. Kadince says:

    I been married & divorce before, & I still believe in
    Love , and hope to get married again some day! I hope that
    This time will last for ever!!!

  1. David says:

    There are plenty of fat people that would never give up their food.

  2. Christian says:

    I make delicious salads but then…….to fully appreciate it , one has to be hungry for a salad.

  1. David says:

    I could have sworn that I already commented on this one. Sometimes my comments show up and sometimes they don’t. Anyway, I don’t believe in pickup lines.

  2. Andi says:

    I think pick up lines are a waste of time.

  3. bandit1971 says:

    since i lovw ladies with long nails ill compliment them on the length or sharpness of their nails

  4. Jerome says:

    This is 100% truth it worked as a guideline of good resources

  5. Jenny says:

    Well, it all depends on your pickup line and if you’re using it at the right time when the single involve would listen

  6. mike says:

    I agree Pick-uplines don’t work

  7. jason5473 says:

    Was never good at pick up lines therefore I don’t believe in them. Shouldn’t need a pick up line. If it’s that hard for you to start conversation then it wasn’t meant to be.

  1. David says:

    I have never had a “babe”, but my previous most sexy girlfriends were all brunettes.

  2. Tanya says:

    His play and hair

  3. keyshia101 says:

    I am new Jumpdate and i never meet anyone yet buh hopfuly soon. I really have alot to offer and i want to be love..

  4. bandit1971 says:

    long hair and nails is sexy

  5. jason5473 says:

    when she first comes out of the shower with long wet hair and a towel wrapped around her. Sooo sexy!

  6. ayongsky says:

    when he knows how to sing and dance..

  7. MrTheOne23 says:

    I agree with David brunettes are sexy especially with brown eyes!!!

  8. Ceosky says:

    Sense of humor, attitude, intelligence and sex appeal.

  1. David says:

    Interesting. I posted a comment yesterday and it never showed up! I wonder if today will be different.

    Polygamy is certainly nothing new. It is very much alive and well today.

  2. Bobby says:

    Because a lot of people have seen the institution of “marriage” as “between a man and a women”, meaning “two partners” or “people” involved in the marriage. Which is why a lot of people don’t like the idea, most are people who practice a religion, such as myself.

  3. Ceosky says:

    I really dont know, but we do not live in biblical times.

  4. Melissa says:

    I think there will be a lot of people trying to keep marriage/relationships between man and woman, but I think in the future(may be past my lifetime) I think there will be more polygamy. Why is it anyone’s business who marries who and how many as long as it don’t directly put me in harm I don’t care. Just like gay people, I don’t care if it makes them happy then I am for it!

  5. dee says:

    I practice a religion also and biblical times never ever did dictate that a man could only have one wife, but that he care and love them equally and her children. I am searching for a woman or couple to add to my relationship because I feel that he can handle it and I love him. I feel like these days are not different, in that marriage is about an agreement to fill certain roles in a relationship and to be responsible for each other and try to be happy together. I think that laws on marriage are changing and will continue to change.

  6. jude says:

    I think polygamy is something that a lot of people, feel like something they could never do because they feel how could you share someone you love with other people .Personal I don`t care what people do behind close door .

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  1. David says:

    Yes, not necessarily smartphones, but texting is definitely killing social interaction.

  2. Ceosky says:

    Agreed, it can be pretty lame.

  3. randoomcdude says:

    my previous girl friend was killed by a man talking on a smartphone the day before our wedding

  4. Ronald Davie says:

    While I dont completely agree or disagree with it, smart phones just like most things can be a relationship killer. What most dont take into account is that moderation of anything, be it texting, sleeping, drinking, even work is the key to a stable and healthy relationship. without moderation one will spend to much time and effort aty one or more activies and his / her partner will quickly loose interest.

  5. DjPatron says:

    I think this is bullshit.

  6. joy514 says:

    i dont think so…it is in your way of control how you managed.

  1. anna says:

    i like facebook for connecting with friends and family, but i value my privacy to much to put intimate information out there for the world to see.

  2. gerrad says:

    I think for the most part relationship stuff should be left off social media unless announcing your engagement or or marriage otherwise keep the rest to yourself

  3. Nav_3ydO says:

    HI, I have joined this site two days ago, I have tried to upload pics, but It’s not working. Is there anybody who can tell how to upload pics.
    Thanks.

  4. joy514 says:

    I would like sharing relationship details on social media but not exactly everything.

  1. David says:

    Love definitely needs a language, but it does not have to be verbal.

  2. beltata says:

    but how to built relationship without language?

  3. dar says:

    Love is already a language. You must first open your heart to understand it.

  4. joy514 says:

    Love is in your hearts and language is the way how you communicate, but i guess all this things happen it depends upon how it really works.

  5. bamadeanna says:

    I agree with all the comments above. Love is a language all it’s own and if communicated correctly it is a beautiful thing.

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  1. David says:

    We usually learn what works by trial and error.

  1. David says:

    It is the little things that are important.

  2. cindy says:

    i think little and big things are very important

  3. Wallace_xU8z says:

    Take stock of your feelings first, try examining your feelings coolly and objectively. He that is trusting in his own heart is stupid. Why? Because all too often the judgment of our heart is misguided. And what feels like love often turns out to be something else. I needed someone to love me and care for me. From childhood I’ve never received love. That affected me deeply. If you come from an unloving or abusive family environment, you may likewise feel a hunger for love and recognition. But is a romantic relationship necessarily the cure?
    Unfortunately, people who feel empty and lonely often make poor marriage mates. They enter matrimony expecting to get what they feel they so desperately need. However, true happiness comes from giving, not getting. And a woman is far better equipped to handle marriage if she feels reasonably good about herself and ‘keeps an eye, not in personal interest upon just her own matters, but also in personal interest upon those of others.’
    When you feel under pressure to get married, you can easily overreact to any attention from the opposite sex. Sometimes a young woman’s desire for romance is nurtured by friends and family. Some societies put great emphasis on a girl’s marrying as soon as she is of marriageable age if a woman nears thirty and is still single, she becomes the object of great concern to her family. Because family honor is involved, a father may try to marry off his daughters as young as possible.
    Nevertheless, I would urge people to wait until they are “past the bloom of youth” before marrying. So, what if you feel your friends or parents are putting undue pressure on you to marry. Perhaps expressing yourself in a similarly firm way would bring results, especially if your parents are still together.

  1. David says:

    Don’t most women like the bad-boy image?

  2. kpfuturern says:

    Is this supposed to make us laugh or something

  3. vpablue93 says:

    I was once a player, but it gets old when you’ve seen everything.

  4. Warjunkey says:

    I don’t anyone knows what love is. Everyone talks about wanting it, having it, needing it. You hear people talk of God’s love, The love of money. but what is love? is it more than just a hormonal reaction to stimuli? Is it real? Do we just look for sex and call it love? Is there anything that can be called real love? Or is love merely just infatuation.

  5. Wallace_xU8z says:

    Some of this I can identify with and some I cannot…

  6. FiestyNshy says:

    I’d rather see a player turn lover

  7. stephens says:

    am a lover,not a player

  8. Quinton says:

    Players are people that lost and misunderstood. Playing get old real fast so for you to continue to play, there is a underlining reason and sex is rarely if ever the reason

  9. janelle says:

    dating sites should do more to take off players from dating sites.

  10. All of these are excuses for men (and some women) to NOT grow up pr mature. Every single one of us has had our heart broken at least once, many of us (myself included) have had it broken multiple times, and to use these excuses as a reason to “be a player” or break other people’s hearts is not the sign of someone who can think clearly. Indeed, it is a sign of complete selfishness and lack of control.

  11. pariswhite34 says:

    No One should ever want to be a player, That Is just way to much hard work, And In the long run, yo will end up getting caught up anyway…

  12. Audrey_mN29 says:

    JUST VERY VERY FUNNY

  1. David says:

    I do not believe in outsourcing of any kind.

  2. petry223 says:

    Other men said they have seen angels,
    But I have seen thee
    And thou art enough.

  3. petry223 says:

    Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies

    Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives.

  1. hamid says:

    yes you right

  2. deepak says:

    Good Blog…

  3. deepak says:

    decent article..

  4. linda says:

    yes you are very correct

  5. Michelle says:

    Great i love this good one

  6. Fathom says:

    I like it. Friends with benefits is a good way to go!

  7. Feisty shy says:

    Yes what they said

  1. David says:

    Definitely, hang out with the type of people that you would like to be. Good advice.

  2. walter1950 says:

    well i you are right about this article as love is an essential value of life, once you are in it make you feel with joy and comfort but when the other side happens it weakens soul and mind toward going ahead, the word love goes a love way, in which i have experience both the good side and the bad side of it, it was a deep memory that could not be forget.

  1. louise says:

    Sometimes, the person just is’nt into you no matter how much you try.

  2. cindy says:

    they all seem like good ideas

  3. Roger says:

    good ideas for me

  4. Marlagail says:

    I believe being open and honest is the best thing for a relationship. These are all good things listed

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  1. Marlagail says:

    I loved Las Vegas.

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  1. David says:

    I have a better idea, don’t drink alcohol at all.

  2. Louise says:

    I don’t drink.

  1. Eric Wisdom says:

    Obviously too much cheese is not good for the body and pizza in general takes about 12 hours to digest

  2. Ken Steigely says:

    Good advice. Also I always opt for thin crust anyways.

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  1. David says:

    I can’t watch Julia Roberts in any of her movies. She makes my stomach turn! LOL

  2. Shah Alam says:

    Beauty are in the heart not in the face.

  3. litasha1 says:

    chick flick are cool. it can build a relationship by giving the couple different ideas and new things to try but it can also break up the relationship because the expectation of the couple for each other might change and who to say those expectaion can be met.

  4. dcole050401 says:

    To Shah Alam: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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  1. David says:

    Wow! It has been decades since I played a board game!

  1. David says:

    It is extremely rare for a person to stick to their New Year’s Resolution. LOL

  2. FIESTYNSHY says:

    i AGREE WITH DAVID LOL

  1. Tracy says:

    I like all the tips i read on here but I love to be in a quite place with my love and share our thought.

  2. Barbara says:

    Just relax, take a deep breath and be the true you no matter what you chose to do.

  3. fiestynshy says:

    I NEED JD POINTS

  4. steve says:

    I like all the tips

  5. m_vyas says:

    Good article. in fact we need to have fresh look to the life everytime

  6. wrightcole says:

    change as they say is constant, and everyone have to embrace it. however there are certain areas about a mans life that cannot be changed. one of these is the choice of a life partner, this because it has to do with one life and one desire. for me, the choice of my life partner remain the same because i know there is something specific about her. still looking forward to meet her around.

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  1. David says:

    Smart phones and tablets are destroying the desktop PC market. Oh well, that is progress, right?

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  1. nisssankas says:

    I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH THAT COMMENT

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  3. Joe says:

    Meetup.com SUCKS

  1. David says:

    Honesty is always the best policy.

  2. Mic says:

    If they don’t make you feel good - knowing when to walk away is a great skill.

  1. David says:

    Body language. Got it! Thanks! lol

  1. David says:

    Horoscopes are complete and utter nonsense. lol

  1. David says:

    Part 2 is above Part 1 on the blog list. I read Part 2 first and was totally lost! LOL

  2. Chuck says:

    What in the world was that talking about,i got lost just a female who doesn’t know who the guy is that throws the ball to a receiver in a foot ball game,lol!

  3. Jumpdates says:

    This is because Part 1 was published before part 2

  1. David says:

    That is two minutes of my life that I will never get back. LOL I am not even sure what I just read. LOL

  2. Chuck says:

    Well,if she doesn’t know sports,who am I to judge,she just to know who she’s with,I love her not her knowledge on sports.

  1. David says:

    Thanks for the list. Seems like common sense.

  1. David says:

    I agree, communication is the key.

  1. David says:

    I would go even further with the first item in your list. Know in advance that you do NOT know their culture. I had the pleasure of being in a long term relationship with a Chinese woman and I never totally figured out her culture.

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  1. David says:

    I agree, it is childish to blame online dating sites.

  1. Hotwax says:

    How about interesting date venues in New Haven, CT?

  2. Jumpdates says:

    Thanks for giving idea. Our creative team will look in to this.

  1. David says:

    Trust is key. Also, yes we are hard-wired to stray.

  1. apples62 says:

    don’t have sex on a first date. don.t talk about past relatshion ship do.nt be mad

  2. David says:

    In my entire lifetime I have never walked out of the house without my wallet.

  1. David says:

    Designer labels turn me off. It shows a lack of fiscal responsibility.

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  1. David says:

    I do not think that I will ever get the dates that I want. LOL

  1. i love this article it is so honest and so true not to menton it is stright up as well, love it

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  1. David says:

    Singing? And watch my date faint in horror!

  1. David says:

    I hate it when the best teams are not in the big game!

  1. David says:

    If it comes onto TV, I will be sure to watch it. Thanks.

  1. David says:

    Make sure you setup a fake Facebook account first! LOL

  2. David says:

    I clicked the link in the article and it said link not found.

  3. Jumpdates says:

    Thanks for noticing this error. it’s working now!!

  1. David says:

    It may not have a Valentine theme, but I love Toblerone.

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  1. David says:

    As an engineer, we paraphrase the three laws of thermodynamics like this:

    1). You can never get ahead.
    2). You can never break even.
    3). You can’t even come close.

    LOL

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  1. sydney perry says:

    I think i quite agree with the writer it not possible to plant corn today and harvest it the same day.Likewise applicable to relationship it is not possible to meet a person today and think the love can just happen like that .Any feelings you might have inside is lust and not true love because love is only invoked by our characters,reaction,attitudes and behaviors.

  2. dcole050401 says:

    When are we going to get beyond “theory” and state that evolution is a fact? If Adam and Eve were Black, where did White people come from? If Adam and Eve where Chinese, where did Black people come from. You get the point.

  1. harris says:

    It strenghtens the relationship between both parties and gives joy to both parties.

  2. dcole050401 says:

    I don’t know about your country, but in the USA society is creating monsters by spoiling children. I have also heard that China’s one-child policy is also creating monsters. They call it “Emperor’s Syndrome”.

  3. Terrt says:

    Nothing on earth holds a candle to this, for bringing in a new life that could have all the potentiols of making this world a loving and healthy planet to live on is essential for what God has instored for us

  4. lindsay says:

    well i wish i will have a new born it will help my lov life

  1. lindsay says:

    would like to go bahamas

  2. robert says:

    id like to try the habitat module. im always up for trying the things that challenges a person

  3. Lilly says:

    Like to go to Paris….

  4. Eddie says:

    What pair of nuts would plan space travel for a honeymoon? Too risky and you couldn’t surprise her with a spontaneous dozen BBC’s

  1. Jeff says:

    I think its all a lot of crap. Its all about the publicity to them. The more they are out there the more they are seen which makes them a bigger celebrity. Most of the celebrities out there today have come from well off families. So they dont really need anything and most of them can get what ever they want or who they want. It would not be so easy if they were in my shoes or someone of my class meaning the poor.

  1. m_vyas says:

    I agree with few points of the article that yes at times Indian culture are pulling them back and don;t allow singles to break the ice.

  1. Candice says:

    Hmm well i can never date with an India cos they only believed in Oracle and i do believe in our God who created heaven and heart though no distance count in a serious relationship but for India i will count a Distance

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  1. Toni_aDs8 says:

    Interesting if I would ever go to the UK..I could learn a lot at my age.

  2. Toni_aDs8 says:

    this is getting mighty tempting, but I am 65, don’t know if this would be for me.

  1. dcole050401 says:

    Yes, check to see if she likes stuffed toys, but don’t ask her if she likes wine. lol

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  1. Mahendra says:

    This is good site, if it is get famous as Facebook.

  2. dcole050401 says:

    Facebook was never a fun place. lol

  1. David_nqhf says:

    My wife n i have been doing this for 10 yrs, we are happier than ever

  2. well i hope to be doing this soon

  1. Imnewto says:

    This seems to be about right for most people.

  2. hmdj123 says:

    ok, that’s good.

  3. msmickey102 says:

    It seems perfect for most people.

  4. msmickey102 says:

    what if i say :A happy Life is not about finding the right partner but how long you can hang on to your partner till the very last end, True love is not about how you love your partner in the beginning but how much love you can endure till the very last end, Yesterday is gone, no one knows tomorrow, but today is a gift that is why it’s called the PRESENT. To love is divine and to error is human, life is full of ups and downs, strength in each other will determine life for a true couple. Be loyal, loving, playful, curious, very romantic and full of life. Value honesty, faith and communication. You should be very affectionate and love romance ( do try kiss and cuddle). believe in chemistry and love on first site as well, appreciate intelligence of your partner and always respect his views and decisions. This will put you on a solid foundation to build a healthy and happy relationship. Thank you

  5. Jumpdates says:

    Thanks msmickey102 for sharing your unbiased view of this topic

  6. brandy9999 says:

    am with right man and cant comments more than this

  7. ZooMee says:

    Don’t know

  8. tjhorseman says:

    It amazes me how many of the comments on this subject were (I don’t know) or (No Idea). Whereas these comments are the true answer, they do show us an important fact. Love not only can’t be defined, it can’t even be analyzed. The world of science in all its electronic majesty can’t give us a decent definition of what love is or what causes it. If you ask a woman why she is with someone, most of the time the answer will be (I don’t know, but I love him). Personally I believe love lives on a soul level and not a level of reality we understand. This is why once it dies or is gone we can’t recreate it. The only way we can enjoy love is to accept that we have the ability to love anyone, no matter their age, race, sex or color. Yes I said it love can exist in a gay or lesbian relationship and although I for one genuinely enjoy the act of direct contact with the opposite sex, some don’t. So finally to my point, love is an emotional reaction to a chemical attraction. We can’t start it or stop it or change it. Relationships require work and commitment, love on the other hand requires letting go of your logic and accepting what it has to offer.

    As I said earlier this is my opinion, I have not spent millions studding the effects of love, but if you open your heart and you’re mind you will see there is some logic in what I say.

  9. dcole050401 says:

    I wonder if the people that post really short comments are just trying to get their blog points up. lol

  10. Darren_rWz2 says:

    chances are yes its for the points gotta get them some how but id say over half the country are with the wrong people whether it be for money or what ever else they fit the need for

  1. hmdj123 says:

    Everything will change better.

  2. hmdj123 says:

    everything will be fine.

  3. msmickey102 says:

    Anything goes .

  4. dcole050401 says:

    2.99 inches? LOL I had to reread it to see that they were talking about a flaccid penis. LOL

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  6. brandy9999 says:

    size does not matter it depend on how good you are

  7. zinc-1 says:

    You do not have to be super large to satisfy a women. Average tool with great skills can do wonders

  8. dcole050401 says:

    You can satisfy a woman better with your tongue anyway. LOL

  9. marinebird says:

    Size does not matter depends how damn good you put it to work..lol

  10. I dont think size matters it just depends on if u know what u are doing with it or not

  11. luvtome says:

    i am in search 4 a serious relationship

  12. dcole050401 says:

    It is not the size of the boat, it is the motion of the ocean. LOL

  13. doesnt make any change…NO

  1. dcole050401 says:

    I do all of the things on this list. I guess I am bio green. LOL

  2. gloriaem51 says:

    I don’t care about this!!!!!!!!!!!! Why am I forced to even participate!

  3. haha well i think doing all this wont be bad

  1. m_vyas says:

    Sexual abuse and rape cases are really a big problem than global warming

  2. Hellene_aphH says:

    Sexual abuse is worse then any case in this world, please let put our hand together as one to stop it

  3. Hellene_aphH says:

    sexual abuse is bad in our society

  4. Hellene_aphH says:

    say no to sexual abuse

  5. Hellene_aphH says:

    i stand for the female right,

  6. dcole050401 says:

    You have rape in every country. Is it really worse in India?

  7. ORIOLESRULE says:

    LEARN KARATE,BUY A BIG DOG

  8. dcole050401 says:

    Worse than global warming? I don’t know, the extinction of the species is pretty bad.

  9. I still believe Global warming is bad

  1. dcole050401 says:

    A man and you don’t have a date? Move to NYC. LOL

  2. Paulpow52 says:

    The question arises to me is “Where is the Father?” In alot of states couples are given joint custody where the parents have the children alternate weekends. Such was the case with me seeing my daughter- Every other weekend she would be with me. Which left two weekends a month to have some sort of social life. It is not healthy for an adult to be cut off from social interaction with other adults. Being single again at 60, I struggle with having a social life when woman hestiant to give dating another chance. They might want to think about this-YOU BETTER BELIEVE THEIR EX IS NOT SITTING HOME DEPRESSED! ITS TIME TO LIVE AGAIN MOM!

  3. ORIOLESRULE says:

    GET OUT OF NEW YORK!

  4. morrisdon says:

    IS better when you just leave

  5. sure32 says:

    A man and you don’t have a date? Move to NYC. LOL

  6. niceguy1952 says:

    find someone to treat thease ladys right.

  7. James_sGvt says:

    understand what you need

  8. Geoincali says:

    No more kids

  9. Natali1978 says:

    worldwide
    hard to be a lone mother
    morally

  10. go for someone else who will love you for real

  11. mothering and dating is very hard to do

  12. Dee_4Wqg says:

    A man and you don’t have a date? Move to NYC. LOL

  13. kalyan2 says:

    Relationship is the one which give the correct understanding of a person being alone means it simply lonliness

  14. myhearttron says:

    need true love

  15. John_g4sD says:

    It needs single dads

  16. rollie35 says:

    hire a nanny

  17. missyotte69 says:

    Their single moms worldwide
    it’s hard to fine someone to except your kids and love them and treat them right as well
    that man would have to except the whole package or don’t bother

  18. LiveOnce says:

    I would say it is difficult to find someone to click with period, unless you wanna settle for second best. As a single parent, one must always keep the children in mind - don’t want to put them at risk for the sake of romance.

  19. luvtome says:

    well, it really not easy for a single mum, but i believe all things are possible.

  20. mckones says:

    Maybe just get out of New York

  21. hahaha New York is a Mess …Evacuate lol still funny

  22. LiveOnce says:

    Ya, get out of the big city and start looking in the country, lol. Love has no boundaries, it’s all about what we are destined to do.

  23. luketi says:

    if you love dis women you need pasians

  24. missyotte69 says:

    their songle moms every where not just NYC
    It’s hard to find that special person that will love and your kids

  25. Bertie_x7Kh says:

    THE RIGHT MAN IS VERY HARD 2 FIND ANYWHERE. THEY’LL B SWT 2 U TILL THE GET U WHERE THEY WANT U

  26. Bertie_x7Kh says:

    nomatter where u liv it can b dangerous. u just hav 2 b careful on who u meet

  27. henry_max says:

    it is really tough been a single mum…leave NYC

  28. Kadince says:

    I agree that single moms do have it hard finding a good person to meet.
    I can relate, I use to be a single mom. But now I see more single Dad’s in the picture.
    I think that no matter what , we must always think of the kids first.

  29. swtcandy290 says:

    its all about what we are destine to be

  30. m_vyas says:

    It is not only in NY but any where in the world difficult for single mom.

  31. dcole050401 says:

    I liked it better when they actually updated the blogs.

  1. dcole050401 says:

    My Heart Will Go On is a great song, but The Power Of Love is a horrible song. I much prefer The Gravity Of Love by Enigma.

  2. Brian395 says:

    I love this song

  3. ORIOLESRULE says:

    I THINK BRUNO MARS SONGS ARE REAL GOOD LOVE SONGS. JUST THE WAY YOU ARE, IS THE BEST SO FAR. THE BEST LOVE SONG SINGERS ARE-PETER CETERA AND CHICAGO, BRIAN ADAMS,BARRY WHITE.

  4. cyn0509 says:

    The power of love is a very nice song for also my heart will go on is another great song I love Celine Dion’s songs

  5. morrisdon says:

    the power of love is the greatest

  6. Chad_Py0Q says:

    with the exception of the lady gaga song, they are all great love songs

  7. gloriaem51 says:

    not going to comment on this dum thing

  8. dcole050401 says:

    LOL Gloria comments by saying she won’t comment.

  9. alex1981 says:

    I like bad romance song

  10. sure32 says:

    I THINK BRUNO MARS SONGS ARE REAL GOOD LOVE SONGS. JUST THE WAY YOU ARE, IS THE BEST SO FAR. THE BEST LOVE SONG SINGERS ARE-PETER CETERA AND CHICAGO, BRIAN ADAMS,BARRY WHITE.

  11. James_sGvt says:

    love is part of life

  12. Brian_Px2z says:

    i love the songs

  13. giftlove says:

    Love is the best thing to happen to some one.

  14. Natali1978 says:

    very calm nerves
    Bjork – Come to Me

    enigma- disclose sexual fluids

    uplifting
    John Travolta Olivia Newton-John
    she s like the wint
    Jason Donovan – Be My Baby
    Jason Donovan – Every Day (I Love You More)

  15. beauty and the beast. Celine Dion
    This love is unbreakable. westlife
    I swear. All 4 one

  16. chouette says:

    ave musica…….

  17. dcole050401 says:

    For some, you might not understand the words. Now, that was funny! lol

  18. BINKY01 says:

    Brain Adams Heavan gets my vote

  19. Dee_4Wqg says:

    I thought Taylor Swift was a serial dater

  20. dcole050401 says:

    If you read the headline without reading the blog, it says romantic music to listen to BEFORE you go on a date. As if to say, get romantic before the date. LOL Once you read the blog, you then understand what they mean.

  21. kalyan2 says:

    No songs are required to go a datde i prefer a pleasant mood

  22. myhearttron says:

    love hindi songs

  23. dashriprock says:

    heartbeat by buddy holly

  24. rollie35 says:

    pink cadilac

  25. Dania_IKra says:

    my choice of music before i go out on a date is HIM

  26. missyotte69 says:

    Tim McGraw it’s your love
    your the wond beneth my wings

  27. LiveOnce says:

    Anything slow and sensual to help get the groove on.

  28. Janet_2JBd says:

    tim mcgrew love his music

  29. dieselnation says:

    can we really narrow down love songs to a top five? There are tons of music to set whatever mood you are looking for

  30. LiveOnce says:

    I am not sure We would want to waste time on music videos before going out.

  31. David_YA7P says:

    A little bit of Marvin Gaye with a little bit of Common..

  32. luvtome says:

    any cool blue,like micheal botton

  33. Love the songs ..Bruno Mars ..thumbs up

  34. Daniel333 says:

    I like Avicii… It get the party going

  35. missyotte69 says:

    it’s your love with tim mcgraw and faith hill
    I will always love you by whitney huston

  36. Ally_hn1v says:

    Love scene by joe

    i’ll love to you by boyz to men

    heaven sent by keyshia cole

  37. luketi says:

    mike brant old songs

  38. Like the song though and love is the greatest

  39. Bertie_x7Kh says:

    with arms wide open, remember me,

  40. henry_max says:

    Bruno mars is really cool..cant get enough of lady gaga’s bad romance

  41. nhnihan says:

    i like the song so much

  42. dcole050401 says:

    I liked it better when they actually updated the blogs.

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  2. shirley1 says:

    I am happy to be here…..

  3. dcole050401 says:

    I liked it better when they actually updated the blogs.

  1. kellyrich47 says:

    It a great write up very interesting

  2. valonly says:

    This is honestly true

  3. Smiler4uk says:

    Give time. Smile. say I;m sorry. Compromise :-)

  4. archisishere says:

    well, i’d say I hate that guy that fought with you, lets not talk to him anymore :)

  5. Mary_Y8VZ says:

    Makes sense and may work depending on what the fight is about. I just think if some things are said that hurt talking about it and time is the best medicine. I don’t know about some but I love a real conversation where two people can have both sides of story told with no fighting about it to.

  6. dcole050401 says:

    I liked it better when they actually updated the blogs.

  1. Shell53beth says:

    Just keep your eyes and attention on your partner. Then maybe romantic things will happen and you will feel it. Sigh.

  2. giftlove says:

    I would like to meet a nice guy here.

  3. sandi6820 says:

    sounds like some of what i would like to do to relax

  4. thefreeman says:

    This a great idea to plan romantic vacations and never forget enything to be special time.

  5. jmains says:

    They don’t exist

  6. Ashababe says:

    love to meet a nice guy here

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