Posts Tagged ‘dating dilemma’
Sunday, March 31st, 2013
Finding a date is very exciting and fun but realizing a date is a leech can mean big trouble for the girl. Even though each person chats online with a prospective date and then goes dating, meeting the person face to face conveys a lot that is not comprehensible when chatting online. Girls need not get stressed if they face an awkward situation.
There are the most common dating dilemmas and tips on how to get out of them graciously
Scene 1: You are dressed in your very best outfit, a sexy mini skirt, dressy blouse with high heeled footwear. You manage to rip your skirt which becomes a big embarrassment for you. Simply wrap your scarf or sweater around your waist or feel free to borrow the jacket from your date.
Scene 2: If your date is getting loud after a round of drinks, you can tell him politely to speak a bit softly. If he still does not get your point, simply excuse yourself to go to the wash room, on the way tell the captain at the restaurant to tell your date that he is disturbing others and may be asked to leave.
Scene 3: You find your date cute and enjoying his company too though you are not ready for the kiss. If he does attempt to kiss you, pushing him away would be outright rude. You can hold his face affectionately and tell him it’s not the right time yet. If he understands you, it will mark the beginning of a long term relationship; if not then he is just interested in a casual relationship to pass his time.
Scene 4: If he calls you by the wrong name then it shows he is not interested in you as he is just physically with you but mentally elsewhere. Humorously tell him he missing his ex or what reminded him of his ex. His reply will tell you how genuine he is about your relationship. If you goof up his name, apologize immediately and tell him the conversation/incident reminded you of your cousin so you spilled out his name in the conversation.
Scene 5: If he walks out of the toilet with his fly undone, don’t stare at him to embarrass him. He is probably too excited to be spending time with you and forgot to zip up. Cell phones will come to your rescue as you can simply text him. This will save him the embarrassment and you the dilemma of the situation.
Make your dating more enjoyable by finding witty and diplomatic ways to get out of the situation. Remember both are always anxious no matter how much dating experience you have. Without embarrassing your date find a solution to graciously wiggle out of the situation every time.