Posts Tagged ‘dating partner’
How would you react to a date that has a gun?
Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
We sometimes forget that living in a land of plenty that some things are borne out of necessity while other things have been culturally influenced. Many would agree that recent events in gun killings and where typically 43 persons die each day from gun violence here in the US that some serious actions need to be taken.
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The US is probably the only nation that as an amendment clause that gives everyone the right to bear arms. This is understandable in the days when lawlessness was rife and we did not have the protection of the state police that we have today. However, are guns really necessary these days? I have spoken to a few advocates of gun use and they always seem to say the same thing which our great great grandfathers did and that is we need protection in case anyone invades our property. The intent to kill for any reason is abhorrent in my opinion unless you fear for you own safety and life. How does this equate to someone else’s views especially if you are close or you are dating them.
There is no doubt that someones aggressive stance in acquiring and maintaining a gun reflects much in their personality. Is it really for the protection of the well being or is it an act of showing power. I believe in these modern times, it is the latter. If your date does possess a gun, you are likely to be dating a person who relishes power. On the other hand you may also be dating a person that has low self esteem and gets a boost from possessing firearms. Gun possession represents a symbolic power that most likely changes as soon as someone makes first use of it. Take for example the 1992 western movie ‘Unforgiven’ starring Clint Eastwood and Morgan Freeman. These two had-been gunslingers come across a young rookie who has never used a gun and shows off his prowess with the gun but goes into deep brooding as soon as he kills someone for the first time.
The use of firearms has to be for the right reasons, make sure you get the right answers from your date who does possess a gun.
Tags: date, dating partner, gun culture
5 things you need to know about your date to get you off to a flying start
Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
1. Establish trust
There is no point in pursuing a relationship if you cannot be honest with the other person. This is why it’s vitally important to be as truthful as possible on your dating profile. You don’t need to resort to those techniques if you think outside the box and look into how creative you can be. Look at our many previous blog posts on this subject. At this stage you also want your guard up and men can learn from the women on instinctual matters. Observing your dating partner and listening to your inner voice can tell you a lot about your partner and whether they are hiding something that will be important to you. The funny thing about relationships are that what one thinks looks bad on the dating partner is in fact not an issue at all, so please keep this in mind.
2. Listens to you
Pay attention whether your partner is really listening to you. This is important as you can expect to spend more time with this person. Remember your time is just as important as theirs and it’s possible that some people are quiet and will allow the other person to speak more. If you do fall into this category, look for your partner to pause for a moment and to ask you a question.
3. Things in common
Generally its a good idea for you and your dating partner to have some things in common but it doesn’t have to be exactly this way. Don’t feel afraid if their interests are far removed from your own because the common thread that bonds people together are usually more deeper than this. The qualities of trust, ability to listen, empathy for the other person and an affection for each other are the ingredients for a good long-term relationship.
4. Be attracted to each other
Naturally attraction plays an important part in a relationship, without this there will be no cohesion or interest in pursuing the date beyond the first meeting. However, don’t base your relationship entirely on looks alone since the personality and character of your date will determine how you both get along.
5. Do they make you feel good
If you listen to your inner voice, you may have a nice feeling inside of you. This would be a good indicator that you are both on common ground and there is a good chance of success in this new pairing.
This is not the complete list to look for when you are dating for the first time but they are important points to keep in mind during your first date. Send us some of your own thoughts and ideas on this valuable topic and tell us how first time daters can benefit.
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Is Google Ruining Your Dating Life for Forever?
Monday, August 20th, 2012
Google search engine is undoubtedly the king of the web. It shows you the search result very close to being perfect and you can’t deny this fact. But, it also has ended the concept of blind dates and has been running the life of dating star who play all sorts of games to earn the confidence of their dating partner.
Is Google Ruining Your Dating Life for Forever?
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One of the real life example we are talking here (can’t mention the name) where a girl was dating a guy and has been hiding the truth about herself just to get his attention and to keep their dating life active. But, that boy Googled some information about this girl and found what she has been telling her from the past few weeks was nothing but bunch of lies.
That was the last day of their dating story which was the expected reaction. What the girl did was wrong but there are set of people who call her as a dating star and there is another set of people that call her an evil liar. This sort of act is commonly found amongst men as they normally do such things to impress girl.
But, the question that comes to the lime light is does Google run the lives of dating stars? The obvious answer is yes as it is difficult for information to be kept secret by people these days unless they are not active on social media or other internet sites. However, on the other side, it is exposing those habitual people that lie to impress others which that can be very hurtful.
Why don’t you comment on this to share what you guys feel about such cheaters and read this article how to identify such cheaters. Found Your Boyfriend on Free online Dating Site…Is He Really into You?
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Top Reasons to Leave Your Man Alone
Thursday, August 2nd, 2012
Women love their man to be with them when they need them most man would agree to this and feel the same way. However, the problem starts when women want them to be with their men all the time giving no space to breath. Men always complain that their female partners do not give them enough space they want and on the other hand female have their own logic of having two bodies one soul when they are in love.
Top Reasons to Leave Your Man Alone
However women need to understand that giving your man the needed space can boost their love life. Here are top reasons why you should leave your man alone.
1. Need time for him– No matter how much you love each other and can not stay away from each other, you should give him some space to spend by himself for his recreation. This alone time will definitely improve your love life when you meet up again.
2. Need to spend time with friends – Give him the freedom to chill out with his friends. Give him some ideas of how can make his time more exciting with his friends and you will see a change in his attitude.
3. Get over your last fight – Couple love each other a lot of them often fight. This is a healthy sign that both of you love each other a lot and to be normal you should stay away from each other from time to time.
4. Make him feel like single – Men miss their single status after getting married. Let him feel that he is single again. Let him feel like a single for one day and you will notice the surprise on his face.
5. You also need time to be alone – Whatever your excuses are to stay together, the fact is you also want to spend some time by yourself and have some alone time. You can use this to think of something creative for yourself and you relationship.
Comment on this article and tell us what you think and how would go about getting quality alone time.
Tags: dating help for females, dating partner, nightout with friends, True Love, women leave man alone
Dad Worried about Teenage Girls Dating Need Not Worry Anymore
Friday, July 6th, 2012
Dads normally perform the roll of a protector for their children, especially for their daughters. The role of the father as a protector becomes more important when she touches her teens and starts dating for the very first time.
Dad Worried about Teenage Girls Dating Need Not Worry Anymore
Here are Top Five Tips for both fathers and daughters to follow –
1. For dad, it is good to be possessive but spying on their daughters is not a good idea. In this way your daughter will start thinking that you don’t trust her and she won’t be communicative to you as you would like.
2. Daughters also need to understand that their fathers are more experienced and understand that the teenager is in a vulnerable stage of her life and you need help especially when you start dating for the first time.
3. Daughters should tell their parents about their dating partners and tell them about him in more details. If possible they should also introduce him to their parents.
4. Teenagers love to party, even fathers have gone through this in their teenage life. Don’t say no straight away and do a background check where she is going before coming to any conclusions. Even if you say no, please back it up with good reasons.
5. Teenagers spend most of their time on social networking sites like Facebook and online dating sites. Don’t spy what she is doing privately and a good way to do it is to add her in your Facebook friends list and in this way you will be aware of what she is doing socially.
Comment on this article and tell us what you think fathers should do and how daughters should protect them from increasing cases of sexual abuse online.
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