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Things to Observe visiting boyfriend’s house for the first time

Your boyfriend is the most charming guy you have met. You love his company and enjoy spending time with him. You start believing he is the gentleman of your dreams and you start looking forward to spending your life with him. Don’t get carried away! Pause to think when you visit his home for the first time. Observe the subtle signs to analyze if he is the same personality as you are dating. Remove the blind-fold of love from your eyes and look beyond.

How long have you known him? Did it take years for you to convince him to take you home? If yes then that is a dicey relationship. Keep your exit plan ready.

Things to Observe visiting boyfriend’s house for the first time

Things to Observe visiting boyfriend’s house for the first time

When you go to his house, if he is living with parents what is their body language when you arrive. Has he told them about you or are they just cordial and brush you off conveying that their son keeps bringing somebody to their home.

Has he made special efforts to arrange some flowers at home where you cannot miss noticing them? He has bought a bottle of the drink that you enjoy. If yes then it shows that he is interested in you as a person and not just for sex.

If he lives alone then observe how messy or unclean his home is. This will tell you a lot about his temperament no matter how well dressed and proper he is when he meets you outside.

Has he kept all gifts and stuff given by his ex-girlfriends? It means he is still not over her and simply using you as a punching bag for his emotions.

These few tell-tale signs are enough to tell you whether to continue this relationship or not. Visit his home with an open mind but keep an eye for the little signs to protect you from a heart-break and the feeling of being used.

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One Response to “Things to Observe visiting boyfriend’s house for the first time”

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  1. dcole050401 says:

    Interesting. I am not on any social sites. I guess I am a con man. LOL!

  2. shortcutz says:

    There are many men out there who can’t be true gentlemen and then those that act like gentlemen and that is all it is, just an act.

    A Con Man can hurt a person emotionally, physically, mentally and financially. One other thing to look out for is where they start to say “I Love You” right from the beggining and they don’t even know you. They might have crush on you but true love will show itself. Honesty 100% always means nothing to hide.

  3. skeet says:

    Interesting teaching guys how not to get caught lol

  4. Mamun says:

    Well they do say love is blind!! Stop doing anything for him do eryiethvng for yourself and only yourself if you pay the bill fo rthe internet stop payin it. and i think you should move out you work your butt off you and he doesnt i would not put up with it, what you have is not marriage its the wife trying to build a future and the husband stuck as a 15 yo, who mummy looks after him..you need to think of yourself and the future you want life is too short to have ppl hinder your dreamsReferences :

  1. David says:

    Most women like to have a little space to themselves as well.

  2. KIM says:

    INTERESTING

  3. trac_Country says:

    I totally agree with this. Everyone needs alone time once in awhile.

  4. amanda says:

    ummm could go both ways…

  5. Lais says:

    Everybody needs a time for him/herself every now and then.

  1. David says:

    Is this a dating site or a marriage counselor?

  2. Awa says:

    the best is to keep on trusting each other no matter the storm

  3. miiawebbie says:

    Don’t let him play internet games alone

  1. jayashekara says:

    found it is good

  1. David says:

    Just eat the turkey and don’t worry about your nails!

  2. cindy says:

    i agree enjoy the turkey

  3. Louise says:

    Simple manicure will do just fine.

  4. Roger says:

    turkey delight..lol

  5. Marlagail says:

    I love those ideas.

  1. David says:

    Great! All I have to do is knock on a million doors until I find a woman that was baking and the wind blows her hair into her face! LOL Thanks a lot!

  1. David says:

    I have never looked at someone else’s cell phone!

  2. Chuck says:

    This is very interesting,but i don’t think i would like my girlfriend dating multiple guys,if she loves me like she day she does,then will only need one boyfriend.

  1. David says:

    Is he living with his parents? Classic! LOL

  1. David says:

    I think some of this advice is just plain wrong. It seems as if the advice is “Don’t be a nice person”.

  1. dcole050401 says:

    So, hugging on a cloudy day in the spring, summer or fall is off limits? LOL

  2. HotGuy4Wmn says:

    Your man will love PDA anywhere as long as you give him what he wants.

  1. travis says:

    Cougar are great

  2. dcole050401 says:

    My Cougar would have to be in her 90s! LOL

  3. cindy says:

    i wouldn’t date a very young man he would have to be at least 40

  4. ambient says:

    Never dated a cougar, but then again, never really looked…

  5. Kyle says:

    Love a cougar!

  6. Pretty nice post. I just stumbled upon your blog and wished to say that I have truly enjoyed surfing around your blog posts. Thanks and keep up the great work!

  7. Jumpdates says:

    Cougar are great

  8. Jumpdates says:

    sex it brings are cool

  1. dcole050401 says:

    Seems like common sense to me.

  1. roland says:

    you need to be calm and don not rush into no relationship

  1. Kevin04 says:

    I would like to meet an attractive woman, with a good sense of humour. I think that honesty and decency are very important qualities. I would like to find an active and optimistic person, who enjoys his life, who never give up. A woman of my dream is intelligent.

  2. dcole050401 says:

    Fix his old shoes? Now you are just making stuff up at random. LOL

  3. gloriaem51 says:

    I am not answering this

  4. dcole050401 says:

    From the picture, I thought a surfboard was one of the surprises. LOL

  5. sure32 says:

    I would like to meet an attractive woman, with a good sense of humour. I think that honesty and decency are very important qualities. I would like to find an active and optimistic person, who enjoys his life, who never give up. A woman of my dream is intelligent.

  6. BINKY01 says:

    Sound advice

  7. denniskru says:

    The real surprise is that anyone answered this

  8. ghouse says:

    Please leave me alone,,,,I just want to read my messages

  9. cyn0509 says:

    Give him two tickets to his favorite sports too share with his best friend

  10. vveronica says:

    Make available of his favorite dish and ready to pull off his dress when he return from work. Hug and Kiss him by cheek look at his face and tell him a wonderful word. ( you are awesome Honey )

  11. imdabug says:

    If I give away my secrets then they won’t be surprises because everyone will be doing them.

  12. m_vyas says:

    Right cyn0509 - I would love to have tickets of my favorite sport and it will be surprise if my girlfriend gives me

  13. jt654 says:

    love sex!!

  14. Geoincali says:

    I am not big ob being surprised

  15. dcole050401 says:

    Did you read what ghouse wrote? Way too funny! LOL

  16. giftlove says:

    A good massage.

  17. Natali1978 says:

    make the sign of the attention
    when a man does not expect

  18. chouette says:

    …looking for a stylig ,honest friend and maybe more if there it s chemistry….

  19. shunngut3 says:

    I want to meet someone who is kind and enjoyable to be with.I know love takes time and am in no hurry. I have the rest of my life, that should be enough time .She would have to be a woman of integrity, honest,confident, kind and with a sense of humor. Needless to say an intelligent woman who is able to converse on several subjects without getting into passionate arguments all the time. very affectionate, easygoing,understands, trustworthy, family oriented and supportive. she should be fun-loving and love to laugh….

  20. I would like to find an active and optimistic woman, loving and caring.

  21. bilalbuneri says:

    so romiantic seen ,

  22. Amy_EwTx says:

    i would not mind doind lil surprise for my man that could be very interesting

  23. stacy_cares says:

    i will like to fine a loving caring and loving man on here

  24. stacy_cares says:

    i will be very happy if i may find the man of my choice on here

  25. james_nevin says:

    i will like to find a caring and loving woman..

  26. rosaline101 says:

    would love to give my man a son and name him after him..

  27. james_nevin says:

    i will like to give my woman full love and attention…

  28. robertball says:

    Outdoor intimacy! One of my favs!

  29. george1117 says:

    thats lovely

  30. jeff7812 says:

    Take her out on a special treat to where she’s never been and show her things she’s never seen

  31. chouette says:

    but this agency doesn t work…nothing is happend…….. I guess all the profiles are old………date……..

  32. dt32123 says:

    fix shoes.LOL

    that aint the surprise a man wants. You put on a french maid costume and greet him at the door in the evening….that’s what I’m talk’n ’bout !

  33. William_GjwT says:

    If I ever meet the woman who my heart chose, am always intrigued

  34. hilary_cares says:

    i will like my man to be honest with me…

  35. Dee_4Wqg says:

    Fix his old shoes

  36. dcole050401 says:

    chouette, you may be right about the agency not working.

  37. kalyan2 says:

    I wanna woman those who like to with me everytime

  38. Fred_WXHG says:

    nice to be involved

  39. myhearttron says:

    I love giving surprises!

  40. John_g4sD says:

    I DONT THINK YOU VE GOT A NICE SURPRISE YET…

  41. rollie35 says:

    hold on to him always

  42. Bertie_x7Kh says:

    I’DE HAV ANICE ROMANTIC CANDLE LIGHT DINNER WITH SOFT MUSIC.

  43. kadiran54 says:

    From the picture, I thought a surfboard was one of the surprises. LOL

  44. missyotte69 says:

    Have a romantic dinner ready with candles lit up with soft music and something sexy on or give tickets any kind of sport he would love to go to see. Surprise him for lunch

  45. LiveOnce says:

    Take him to see his fav sports team and add a lil xtra curricular activity during breaks ;-).

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