independent, reliable

I'm usually pretty friendly and out going and like to do new things. I love to kid around and have a good time, but keep in mind that kidding is only good as long as no one is getting hurt. I’m usually pretty easy going and adaptable, but don’t push well. No means no and for that I am not a push over, I don’t intimidate easy. I have a good head on my shoulders and love a good conversation, not all blonds are airheads, but I prefer to keep it light, life is too serious as it is.
My other personality traits:-
I always try to look on the bright side, see the good in every person and situation. Although this can sometimes be a challenge. I prefer to look forward and only look back when I need to remember a lesson learned. I wouldn’t want to miss out on something great ahead of me while I’m looking back. I’m creative and persistent and usually accomplish what I set out to do, but try to keep in prospective the difference between a challenge and an impossible feat. I’m a good mediator in a dispute as I always try to gather and understand all sides. I smile a lot, it lightens the atmosphere around me.
Your ideal partner and the qualities you are looking for:-
First off he would be white and live in American. After that I don't know what I want exactly, just what I don’t want, but I know I am NOT INTERESTED in men of African decent and want someone who lives in the United States. Each person is different and qualities that are good in one person may not be favorable in another. I want someone who I can respect and will respect me. Someone who makes my heart race and who I can not stop thinking about. Someone who the mention of their name puts a smile on my face.