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It’s no hidden secret that both men and women have different psychology, they think differently in a given scenario and have very different ways to handle similar situations.

Science of Contacting Online Date - For Men

Science of Contacting Online Date - For Men

Men have a more practical approach towards relationships and females have an emotional way to handle their relationship. There is nothing wrong in both approaches but, there are different situations where each can be applied.

Most men make mistakes while contacting women for the first time. Free dating sites have become the most happening place to find dates for online singles. But like in real life men make mistakes online as they first approach a women.

Here are Top FOUR thing men should avoid online when contacting women –

1. Find Similar Traits – Don’t create a template to send messages to your latest find on free dating sites. Read the entire profile of your match and try to find what’s common in both of you have then contact her with those points in your message.

2. Don’t write an essay – It’s good to write something about you but, writing an essay is a big no. Don’t sound like you are making a sales pitch with your entire bio that talk about how good you are. Write 2 or 3 lines highlighting something unique about yourself and of course anything that caught your eye about the other persons profile.

3. Avoid arrogance – it’s good to have self confidence but over confidence is bad. There is a fine line between confidence and over confidence. Never try to oversell yourself, honesty is the basis of any friendship and there will be plenty of other ways to catch your princess.

4. Come out of cyber world – You guys have been exchanging messages on free dating sites for one week now and feel that both of you make a good pair. Most singles make mistakes in expressing it and just could not move ahead from being just a pen pal. Get out of the cyber-world of dating and take your date to the next level by meeting offline.

Following these steps there would be gradual improvements in your online dating experience. Comment on this article and tell us what are your suggestions to have an eventful online dating experience.

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4 Responses to “Science of Contacting Online Date - For Men”

  1. shrav1512 says:

    I love getting dates

  1. Joe says:

    I would not mind dating or having a relationship with a woman from another country.. So long as she is already located in the US..

  2. Fitz says:

    I am very interested in dating a black woman….either American or not. It is something I have never done….any takers out there?

  3. Sanjok says:

    Hello Joe i am also want to make relationship to a woman from another country so please reply me for our further relationship ok Joe.

  4. I am seeking a special friendship that eventually will lead to a long term relationship, I am caring, sincere, fun loving man looking for the same in return………i love to date another woman from another culture ,color and Continent i mean a white woman who is ready for serious relationship

  1. Manuela says:

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  1. dcole050401 says:

    Here is another term for a sugar baby: gold digger.

  1. David says:

    I thought the first two paragraphs were interesting. Basically, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. I think I read that book! LOL

  2. When you do ask her out, try to come up with something other than the standard coffee date. Have a specific date in mind. After talking with her for a week this should be easy, since you will have some idea of her interests. -,

  3. says:

    Science of Contacting Online Date - For Men…

    Men have a more practical approach towards relationships and females have an emotional way to handle their relationship. Free dating sites have become the most happening place to find dates for online singles. …

  4. KIM says:

    different strokes for different folks

  1. KIM says:


  2. olawalex says:

    am a very cool person

  3. ayalkbet says:

    I don’t think so for what u said coz how much they have the know-how Toronto so about dating?

  4. albert says:

    It not bad a teenager have a date

  5. Matt says:

    I couldn’t agree more. Guys act the same way now as they did when i was in school. unfortunately there starting to have sexual intercourse at a much younger age now. i can only hope that i can insteel the proper knowledge and wisdom into my own daughters life, because after they reach a certain age they Wilkinson be making their own decisions…

  1. KIM says:


  2. Matt says:

    sounds about par for the coarse

  3. Micheal says:

    This is fake ass shit

  1. David says:

    Right, don’t make the mistake of thinking that she loves you and not your money! LOL Priceless!

  2. dcole050401 says:

    I hate posting and then not getting credit for it! LOL

  3. mchgeer says:

    have a gentle, kind and caring spirit;
    love the simple things in life and not out there to make conquests. Most importantly,have a sincere heart.

  4. ryan taylor says:

    You have to be focus,know the woman you are taking into your house,women are so easy but still complicated to understand.

  5. Denis says:

    to truely love the woman and to just ask her somewhere romantic.

  6. lucia45 says:

    Very interesting

  7. nensi says:

    The marriage propose can be anywhere, the most important thing is sincerity and love

  8. suzana_20012 says:

    Marriage Proposal Idea A Gift that Keeps on Givin in their lifetimes, so you’ll want it to be memorable and perfect.

  1. Willamtel33 says:

    The article on the three things women look for is total crap.
    These guide lines will insure failure.An intelligent woman knows better.
    Macho men are jerks,they seldom walk correctly. They walk with their feet far apart and on their toes.
    They cannt get past a mirror and of course they are wonderful.just ask!
    Any woman attracted to this is shallow and is easily impressed with such nonsence.
    What do you think will happen in time?
    It doesnt take a rocket scientist to see failure written all over this puppy.

  2. David says:

    They want you to be gay! LOL

  3. juli says:

    good for all

  4. mystique64 says:

    the author of this article obviously based their theory from surveys done on the uneducated,shallow and ignorant sector of society…what other explanation could there be to such idiotic literature…

  5. me says:

    I don’t agree. Not everyone.

  6. fiestyNshy says:

    1. Honesty
    2. humor
    3. stability

  7. cindy says:

    i also think honesty humor and stability

  1. dilipbabu says:

    its very interesting…

  1. draga4u says:

    I`ve been lucky not to have dated many jealous guys. But once I was surprised to find out that the man I simply adored got jealous when he saw a photo of me with an ex boyfriend taken long before I had met him. Not only that, from that moment on he never missed an opportunity to point out how beautiful his female friends were and he pretended to be intimate with them so that he`d get back at me. But get back at me for what?! Insane…

  2. Ali says:

    Men Jealous of Women - Too Close to Other Men

    It’s true. Ladies get jealouse if her man gets close that way to another woman, but if she does, he is too much jealouse and not understanding. for both, don’t get close to others that much, if you want to keep your relationship together. you want each other, so stay with each other, respect each other and don’t hurt each other.

  3. krieger125 says:

    Dis is quite revealing as dis article contains up to 90% truth on how we men feels and reacts…

  4. Michelle says:

    Well i’ d say its reality and the fact

  1. David says:

    ISO certified? You must be kidding! LOL

  1. sydney perry says:

    I think in a relationship a man does not really think if he is making a mistake or not dating someone who is visibly not his type but a lady thinks of a lot before commitment. We ladies think we have a lot to loose .

  2. dcole050401 says:

    Yep, men are human beings too! LOL

  1. lindsay says:

    well love exist though

  2. lindsay says:

    we all want love even men but i think women need love most

  1. Jeff says:

    A lot of people say men are better drivers but I dissagree. I have always thought women are better drivers.

  2. tony says:

    speechless but i dont really agree with it

  1. cuddlebear71 says:

    What i like doing is tell them how you feel, good or bad an you got to cominicate tell,
    How great they look,

    Best part of a telationship is talking to them. Best way. An a good listrnener

  2. cuddlebear71 says:

    Oh an one more thing ask Q’s about them

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  1. Toni_aDs8 says:

    I could spend hour debating this with anyone that would….if I had the time.

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  3. ally00 says:

    women is the best thing that can happen to a man

  4. dcole050401 says:

    Thanks for the advice!

  1. Being happy and believing you can have it is the way to be!!!

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