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1970-01-01 00:00:00 | Good guys lose...
Posted: 2011-11-20 17:37:51 |
Nice/Good guys finish last because nice guys come across as push-overs. Its a confidence thing, either your confidence shows through or it doesn’t.
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Posted: 2011-08-14 14:42:37 |
I agree, most of us nice guys finish last. I may not be very old, or experienced, but i do know what love is and how it works. Not too long ago i got out of a 3 year relationship which, too, ended sour. She always told me how perfect for her i was and how i was the best thing that ever happened to her. I treated her like a princess, never did her any wrong or harm. I was always there for her whenever she called. I even went to her parents personally and asked their permission to date her. Not 4 months later she cheated on me with a complete asshole. But even then i stayed with her cuz i loved her, and was willing to look past her mistake at a young age. Even bought her an expensive as hell necklace just to prove i still wanted to be with her. 2 years later i took a vacation out of state, and the whole 1 dam week i was gone she was talking to yet another guy. B4 i even got back home she called me to break up with me the day b4 i was coming back home.
After all that she even had the gall to tell me i was mistreating her and not letting her do wat she wanted to do. But it was her choice to spend all her time with me and not her friends.
So for me treating her like a princess for 3 years, she leaves me 4 a guy who only wanted to use her for sex. that relationship didnt last 5 months.
So yea, i agree, good guys lose.
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Posted: 2011-07-18 20:50:01 |
So I recently got out of a 4yr relationship that ended pretty sour. Coming back out into the single life i’ve noticed even more that a larger amount of women now won’t even give a guy the time of day because he gets automatically placed in the ”just another booty chasing a**hole” group! I can’t speak for ALL men… yes some of us are dumb, horny, and don’t know how to treat a lady.. but there are a lot of us left that are still VERY capable of being prince charmings.
My relationship I just got out of started like a fairytale(these are her words) I was ”perfect” to her. Then all of a sudden it was ”too good to be true” and she let her paranoia destroy our relationship. Too good to be true??? when it was just GOOD and very TRUE. So now I find myself in the category of having a hard time finding a queen because a lot of women I run into wont take a chance and get to know a guy because other a**holes mess it up for the good guys. I’m not that guy that hurt you, I treat every woman with respect and like the beautiful beings they are. If a woman took the time to get to know me they would see i’m a very different type of guy, unique… out of the norm(hints why I call myself The Anomaly). I’m looking to give a woman everything she wants in a man and more, i’m looking for my partner in crime, my sidekick, my queeen in the throne next to me. Someone I go to sleep thinking about, and I wake up thinking about. I surely hope she is out here somewhere waiting for me to trot by in my chariot and scoop her up for the ride of her life.
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