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I am looking for my last first kiss

I am a kind loving man. A non-testosterone driven man(right-brined) a lover not a fighter. I use my intelligence to resolve issues not fists. I think most man have a vulgar way of treating and talking about women. I would rather work with a women than a man. Women are logical and don't get their ego involved and men always have to be right or win. In fact most of my best friends have been woman. I like long walks, short disputes, warm hearts and cool hands. Love must be unconditional or else it won't last. I would like to start a never-ending dialogue. Communicate, communicate, and your relationship will last. I like to talk but more over I like to listen. I have no need to talk about myself, I am interested in you! Some people have their communicators broken. They either talk to hear themselves or somehow what you say just bounces off. I pride myself in being very articulate and clear in what I say and I don't talk over people's heads. Don't know why I am talking so much. I will be honest and tell you I have been alone and celibate for 10 yrs. Terrible breakup of my marriage, a lot of traumatic things happened to me and when I hit 49 a cascade of illnesses(will explain if we continue). And the Sagittarius I am it has just been killing me to be alone. So I have tried on-line and have been hurt twice but if you can't take the risk of being hurt you will never be happy. Some of the things I have learned is that some folks don't keep in mind that their is a REAL person on the other end of whatever the agenda might be. I try to stay true to what I have said and am not needing a chat partner nor play games. I have had several experiences that ended with another piece of my heart in the wind. I believe if you say you value honesty, it starts with the first word you write. Not after 40 emails, 66 phone calls then dinner. To say well I am just too busy for this right now. Is that just an easy way to let someone down, could be, if that was true, shouldn't you start with that, not end? All in all this is a good place and have enjoyed the ppl I have had the luck to have had as a friend, even if it isn't what I had hoped. Or the soul mate I am looking for. I have much to give and want to. I don't care if you alittle overwieght. or x-eyed. We are all in the same boat so to speak. Contact me even if you have a question. I will always take your call, be honest and smile because you looked my way........................p