I agree, most of us nice guys finish last. I may not be very old, or experienced, but i do know what love is and how it works. Not too long ago i got out of a 3 year relationship which, too, ended sour. She always told me how perfect for her i was and how i was the best thing that ever happened to her. I treated her like a princess, never did her any wrong or harm. I was always there for her whenever she called. I even went to her parents personally and asked their permission to date her. Not 4 months later she cheated on me with a complete asshole. But even then i stayed with her cuz i loved her, and was willing to look past her mistake at a young age. Even bought her an expensive as hell necklace just to prove i still wanted to be with her. 2 years later i took a vacation out of state, and the whole 1 dam week i was gone she was talking to yet another guy. B4 i even got back home she called me to break up with me the day b4 i was coming back home.
After all that she even had the gall to tell me i was mistreating her and not letting her do wat she wanted to do. But it was her choice to spend all her time with me and not her friends.
So for me treating her like a princess for 3 years, she leaves me 4 a guy who only wanted to use her for sex. that relationship didnt last 5 months.
So yea, i agree, good guys lose.

Id have to say a woman who takes a little initiative herself.