Something this site could add as a feature/function. Is a badge system. In that after 1 month you get a bronze badge. Showing you have been here for a month. 3 months silver .. 6 months and over gold. And then in options allow people to select [ ] Only let badges contact me. Scammers and phishers will never have a gold badge.

Not to mention I like real faces with real words. If someone isn’t comfortable showing me what they look like (adding a profile picture). Then I gather it is someone with too many secrets. And I dislike secrets. I don’t base if I’ll know you off a picture. It just lets me know you are someone real. Someone open. And hopefully someone honest.

With that said its hard to tell the scammers/phishers from the real people often times. Because both don’t always have a picture. So do add a picture.

That is why there are fake profiles. Simply put do you really think the pay sites don’t notice a similar card usage? They do. So while you may stop one profile, they do not stop the payment which allows more profiles to be used to scam with. And they can indeed block a certain card. In truth it is money for the paid dating sites. So while they can claim being proactive about it. and the users being minimal about it, and just banning that one profile. Nothing will ever change. A free site is different however. Because of course there is no payment method. With that the option is to not just ban the profile but wildcard the ip address. geo-location and ip tracing can only do so much however. I feel even the free sites should go paid. Simply to be able to block the payment method. They could charge a month. Still very cheap. And everyone can afford a a month. It then would allow tracking of profiles and payment methods. and additional ways to block fakes/scammers etc.

The state and capacity for which most exist in a relationship standard. Is simply that we attribute faith when we ourselves may not be so faithful. Where we might proclaim love, where there truly is none other than lust. It is not so much that both sexes lie to one another. Over the fact that the modernization of relationships, is profoundly generated toward the one with the better gimmick. You will fall for it, get hurt, ask why. However in the next the gimmick repeats, and thus you go again within the land of gimmicks. One must stand back and evaluate truth from fiction. Your partner will initially build themselves up (gimmick). To a perspective not truly of themselves. It is the grand state of failure today. Why most say their relationship ended. Because the sayings come as such ”this isn’t the man/woman I fell in love with.” .. ”once we got together everything changed”. why do you think that is? Because they talked a good game (gimmick) .. and you did very little to uncover the reality before the fact. I am still a man simply on this earth like everyone else. I am learning still. Growing. However, I wish people were more like people to one another. Than thinking they need to make themselves a better gimmick.