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Definitely in the realm of business this kind of thinking has an adverse effect on the economy and a stumbling block towards progress.

This quality not only has to be present but a necessity for businesses to flourish and continue to survive and grow in this highly competitive global marketplace.

corporations success depends on people of integrity

The cooperation of individuals within a company are what can make or break a company.

We can reflect on mans great achievements and accomplishments in the last century and it has been as a result of working together towards the greater goal.

On the same token, we all want great lives and most importantly happy lives and this is what spurs us to higher planes of thinking and achievement.

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We don’t have to look for soul searching answers to find solutions to our daily problems, the answer may be right under our noses.

We simply need to keep an open mind and how we are without prejudice or bias and use that information to better ourselves.

being open minded can solve many problems

We must be prepared to change for the better, but this is not to say we need to be like a ‘walking doormat’ where we follow all the whimsical needs and desires of others.

To avoid resentment from others we need to turn the table and start looking at it differently.

This emotion is a state of being that you are feeling and it just happens that someone or something is causing you to feel resentful.

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By focusing on the act or thing that makes you resentful, you should look into yourself and find out how to overcome this deep seated emotion.

In this way you can go about the corrective behavior necessary for you to feel more comfortable with yourself or something.

finding truth gives meaning to many issues in life

If your qualification of resentment is justified without bias or prejudice, it may happen that you need to remove yourself from that person or out of the environment you are currently in.

Most intelligent people who understand the true nature of this condition are unruffled by any sort of resentment as it would seem.

This is because they have learnt to cope with this issue and also understand that everyone is different.

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The trick is to keep an open mind before you draw any conclusion that may lead you to resent the person.

Give the other person the ‘benefit of the doubt’.

It takes strong determination and courage to step up to the plate when you are faced with negative actions by another fellow human.

it takes courage to handle negative emotions

But this is truly a test of your character to face the music and see it exactly as it is from your shoes.

Do not jump to conclusion when tricky and uncomfortable situations arise. Listen, learn and understand what is being said and then keep an open mind surmise afterwards when you are free from distraction after the event.

You will notice that when you see famous politicians being interviewed, they almost always manage to keep their calm and wits about them when sensitive or controversial subjects arise.

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In concluding remarks about resentment, we should always try to understand the situation that may lead us incorrectly to a feeling of resentment.

Today we are not likely to get along with everyone and it would be difficult to do so but we can however understand what are the cause of our ill-feelings and resentment that can upset and have a damaging consequence to our relationships with people.

we are all very different from each other

One must understand that each one of us are wired differently and do not assume that everyone has your opinions or beliefs.

First remove any bias, prejudice of the subject and then address any personality hindrance that goes in the way of this, eg. being lazy then look at the problem objectively.

You may find that the other person is not able to see beyond their nose, which is ok.

If you have tried and helped others as a result and no improvement made, then you have to decide if you can live with this or not.

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