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There are no magical solutions to solve our day to day problems and being assertive is by no means the only corrective behavior that will bring harmony to our lives.

The complex nature of our personalities and how we interact with other people is exceptionally diverse and there have been great thinkers of our time such as Sigmund Freud and many publications and works have been written on this subject.

we are all unique individuals

I believe it is up to us as individuals to look intelligently at our own unique situations and utilize our own knowledge and information available to us to sort out our own personal problems.

The capacity to solve our own problems and at the same time improve our lives will also depend on having a good body of knowledge in certain areas.

Top search engines such as Google have made information very accessible to all of us.

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Today, in this fast paced modern lifestyle, we are constantly looking for ways for quick ‘fixes’ be it for entertainment, food, pills, books etc.

Many books on self improvement are readily available to us and feed this craving and demand.

we are all looking for quick fixes such as medicine

Typical examples of quick fixes include medication which has become so predominant in society that there are now pills available for every conceivable type of ailments that one can think of.

Instead of letting our body fight off some of these ailments and build our own immunity system, we are continuously feeding our body with medications and becoming dependant on this and our immunity system suffers.

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This fast paced society we live in makes us feel that there is a cure and answer to everything and we neglect to use our minds more efficiently for any tasks at hand.

If you look at the complex make-up of our personality we are all very different from each other and we all have our unique set of phantasms, fears, tribulations and joy that we carry with us and shape our lives.

thinking affects how we behave

We may even harbor a ‘feeling’ locked inside of us that happened many years ago and replay it again and again in our heads.

This basically goes to show how we ‘think’ as individuals are significant to the way we live and how we continue to perceive our existence shaped by these thoughts past, present and future.

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In my opinion there is no such thing as quick fixes.

Just like specialists take years of practice to become good at something, one cannot expect overnight success in developing an improved personality that has evolved over many years.

It takes patience and practice to see the many benefits materialize in your journey toward self-improvement.

being honest with oneself is the first step toward self-improvement

One of the most important areas to address before we can even move an inch in this direction requires us to be totally sincere and honest with each other.

We must first acknowledge not only the good points we have in all of us but also our shortcomings.

This is crucial for us to have any chance of real improvement.

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There is a famous Chinese proverb that says “..only when the student has found himself and is ready, will the master appear”.

One can only improve themselves if they are true to themselves and truly associate any events around them without any prejudice or bias.

a master can only teach if the student is ready

This is essentially the key to the whole self-development and improvement process.

There are many examples all around us where this essential point, if understood and acknowledged has culminated in the improvement of someone or something.

For example take the recent events of our time where our car companies faced huge hurdles when the economy tanked and GM was bailed out by the government.

In the midst of these bailouts one company defied everyone by not accepting the bail out money thanks to its CEO Alan Mulally who had the foresight and vision to see how Ford can grow to be a powerhouse.

Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 8 >>>