Shyness can get in the way of dating – Part 7
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As you can see shyness can stem from a ‘distorted’ viewpoint that has been virtualized up by the person which in actual fact has little resemblance to the real situation.
This ‘distortion’ as it were can make the person feel very uneasy and deeply inadequate to the group as a whole.
One of the most common traits of shyness comes from parental pressures where we were constantly told what we can do and what we cannot.
parental pressures
If by chance the parent exerts fears into the child at a social event, the child with its innocent mind may become increasingly introverted and say nothing rather than face the wrath of the parents.
Parents should make note. Often parents are also quick to stop their child in saying anything that is outside of what they expect to hear in a social gathering which can lead to problems later for the child.
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