Posts Tagged ‘body language’
What is flirting and why is it important? - Part 10
Tuesday, December 7th, 2010
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You may often find that when you talk to people that some will be more to your liking during the conversation while others are not as inspiring as you would like them to be.
some people have better social skills than others
These are social skills that have been acquired over time and some people are better than others in this ability.
Personality and character of the individual will have a bearing on the kind of social interaction that people are comfortable in.
Keep in mind that if you are not able to interact well with one individual it does not mean that this person is like this with everyone.
Everyone has their own way of interacting and the connection will be based on each other’s differences and indifferences in personality and character.
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What is flirting and why is it important? - Part 11
Tuesday, December 7th, 2010
<<< What is flirting and why is it important? - Part 10
Some people engage with other people very quickly while others are restrained.
good self confidence is a must for flirtation
To be a good flirter there should be no reservations on the part of the flirter and the person needs to have good self-confidence.
He/she must be happy doing it and be prepared for some initial failures at first.
The confident and outgoing ability that emanates from the flirter is what attracts other people. People are more willing to talk you because of these qualities.
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What is flirting and why is it important? - Part 12
Tuesday, December 7th, 2010
<<< What is flirting and why is it important? - Part 11
To be an accomplished flirter, you need to adopt the following traits and continue to improve upon them;
understanding body language is key to flirtation
- Take initiative, be confident and proactive
- Need to be always alert in reading accurate signals from the other person
- Need to be adapt in reading body language
- Be brash (but not overly so)
- Get rid of any baggage in your discussion and sound positive
- Feel yourself in control
- Enjoy doing it
In the next sections, we will continue to discuss the finer details of flirtation and how it can change your life.
To be continued…
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The language of love - Body language and it’s potent power - part 13
Friday, December 3rd, 2010
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You will find people crowded around different parts of the establishment, some next to the bar, some sitting down, some near the music area, dancing and chatting, while others are in the kitchen rummaging for food and drinks etc.
If you catch someone’s eyes, you want to know if it that person is interesting to you and whether to pursue this further.
You have to first establish whether this person is interested in YOU. In house parties, you can expect people to be polite and chat with you without the fear of being brushed off.
However, if you are at a public establishment such as a bar, you need to tread carefully.
Here, people can ignore you and turn you down very easily because there are no common point of reference.
This is where your knowledge of body language can come in very useful.
The language of love - Body language and it’s potent power - part 14 >>>
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The language of love - Body language and it’s potent power - part 14
Friday, December 3rd, 2010
<<< The language of love - Body language and it’s potent power - part 13
Let’s assume that you saw someone that you like and you want to gauge whether that person is interested in you or not and so you can go and chat to her.
You should start looking for tell tale signs in body language, movement & gestures, eye contact and other subtle signs.
Some of the cues of interest can be very obvious such as a look that is ‘longer than normal’ followed by a smile.
However, do not assume that a smile is a sure sign of interest, it could be a simple and polite gesture on her part only because your eyes met.
The language of love - Body language and it’s potent power - part 15 >>>
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