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Secret formula to success in online dating - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato - 14
Friday, March 11th, 2011
Article Subject: Secret formula to success in online dating - cont.
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
Emotions over just straightforward facts are key to make your product/service more appealing to the end user. In the case of a dating profile, pick out stuff from the profile that stirs up feeling and emotions in the other person. In this way the other user is likely to act upon their emotions.
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When you come to sell your product or service, it is important to keep in mind what the user will most likely to find benefits to your product or service. Underlying tip: Convey how the user can benefit, rather than what the product can just do. |
Sell your profile! You need to convey emotions over just simple straightforward details about yourself. Use adjectives in your profile and talk about the ‘doing’ stuff, because this will likely resonate with the reader. |
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Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 8 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Monday, March 7th, 2011
Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 8
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
We don’t want to digress too much from our main topic, but I cannot emphasize the importance of having a good profile. To me it’s just like driving a car without a steering wheel and you will never get to your destination and you probably will have some accident’s in the way until you have your a-ha moment 
As mentioned, the section where the dating site asks for your own freedom of expression is where most people will be reading to differentiate you from other members on the site. Granted that you have gone past the tests of body-weight, height, color, age etc. that may stand in the way of some women, your next area to shine is in the place of free expression.
Here you want to say something interesting. DO NOT provide a trivial and boring list of what you like and what interests you, this will get you nowhere. Imagine other people reading it, they are likely to say ‘heard it’, ’seen it’ and ‘bye bye’. Like everyone else we are looking for something special and nowhere is this true than in a relationship that you are seeking with the opposite sex.
Lets explore how you can really make yourself shine…
make yourself stand out of the crowd - write about what excites you, it may trigger the same feeling in the person reading your profile
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Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 2 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Monday, March 7th, 2011
Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 2
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
Previously we discussed how it can be a hard task, especially for men to break the ice when it comes to messaging someone they like.
The first thing is to understand that online profiles are very impersonal and you do not want to put too much emotional investment on a dating profile prior to having even communicated or talking to them. This is because the online profile can be starkly different to the actual person as some members have found out. This topic is another conversation to itself, but first lets talk about in improving your first opening line so you chances are greatly improved.
Tip 1 - Study the profile - spend 1 minute minimum in scanning the profile, thats all it takes
some little research is all it takes to improve your communication skills
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Online dating tips for women - Part 8 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Sunday, March 6th, 2011
Article Subject: Online dating tips for women - Part 8
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
When you decide to meet in person for a date, do not do this over the email or instant messenger, talk to them over the phone and then decide on a public place to meet.
Since its highly likely that you will be living local you should decide to meet at least half-way and in a public place such as a McDonalds, Starbucks or other reputable public establishments. I would recommend on the first date to keep the conversation light and so don’t rely on a dinner date since this may weigh on both individuals in terms of cost and time especially if there is no chemistry between the two.
It has often been found from reading people’s comments on the first date that the conversation over the phone was very different to the actual meeting. As one lady put it, ‘it was a very awkward conversation’ and this is often because some people are poor communicators over the phone than in person and vice versa.
meeting online and in person can be two totally different experiences
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Online dating tips for women - Part 5 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Sunday, March 6th, 2011
Article Subject: Online dating tips for women - Part 5
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
Now that you have had a good scrounge around the profile and have a pretty good idea who the person is all about, you need to make a few decisions. Sometimes the message that you read may be the deal-breaker because it hasn’t been written well and maybe with typos that a six year old can do better, or being too sexually aggressive in nature or it maybe just too short and not saying much.
I wouldn’t lose hope on the latter where the note can be too short but not at all obnoxious because it can be a simple way to generate an interest in you. You may receive a love poem or a poetically written note which could potentially move you, but again remember the other person maybe sending that out to all of his female matches.
What you should be looking for is someone who has had the time to read your profile and said something to that effect, this shows someone who has singled you out and paying attention to the types of women he wants to meet.
messages can say a lot about the person in online dating
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