What Women Want
These image below are great for laughs and they made round to most inboxes justifying men’s actions and understanding women as being senseless. This is definitely good only for laughs; women are one of the most beautiful creations on earth who serve multiple purposes as a mother, daughter, girlfriend, wife, partner, philosopher and guide.
Women themselves are confused about what they want as the pressures of society and people they are surrounded by forcing them to follow some norm. Women by nature are peace loving and their brain is wired towards empathy for all connecting on an emotional plane unlike the men whose testosterones compel them to be achievers and connect instantly on a physical plane.
From the Stone Age, men were the hunters and protectors while women cooked the meat and looked after the babies and the home. Men are wired to bring food for the family, protect them and provide shelter. Women on the other hand provide meals, look after the babies, keep a clean home and of course sex on demand. Both men and women were happy and satisfied in their defined roles.
Over the years, men started looking down upon the duties that women did to keep the men happy. They started treating the women like door-mats and took them for granted. One basic requirement for the women is respect. All they ask for is to be treated like you men want to be treated with honesty, fairness, kindness and being considerate. The work stress in life for men too increased due to need for higher standard of living, the competition for material goods. Men forgot to respect their women and started chasing money and finding ways to earn more. All frustrations of hard work, insecurity at job and inefficiency to meet the need and demands created a rift in the relationship. Women lost interest in sex as the man did not respect her. Men got options for physical satisfaction outside of marriage too. Women were forced to step out in the corporate world not only to support the household income but to prove to the men that they are capable of doing any task as good as the men if not better. Women fought a tussle daily where they are basically wired to be home makers but circumstances forced them to move out of the comfort of home into the world of competition.
Since the women decided to step out they put in their best effort to achieve success. Success and power gave the women a high and they strived to reach the top and remain there. This not only earned them respect from the stronger sex but created an ego conflict with their spouse/partner too. This wrecked the psychology of women as basically all they need is a home and holiday. At the core women are home makers who are happy in their world where they make a house into a home. The demands and needs have gone up and women today look out for a rich husband who can fulfill their luxurious needs. Women have made a ‘U’ turn today going back to home and hearth and stepping aside from the corporate world.
No matter how rich and successful the man is, he has to work and make more and more money. This is his ego-satisfaction. He too looks for a woman who is good looking, intelligent and willing to be a home maker. He takes pride in her looks and intelligence to boast to his friends that he is one of those people who made sure his wife has brains and beauty for which he earns such a lot of money and keeps working. Male psychology defines success in marriage as being able to earn much more than wife can ever spend! This feeling massages the male ego and inflates it further. He enjoys working to earn more money and his wife is more than happy being the wife of a rich successful man looking after the home, enjoying all the parties, diamonds and great holiday destinations with her husband and family.
No matter how we progress and evolve, women are the same at the core of their very being…home makers!!! All women need is respect, affections and appreciation for all that she silently does for her man and family and she will mould herself as per the circumstances to make her family comfortable and something to feel proud of.