Posts Tagged ‘Relationship Advice’
Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
How does one supercharge a date?
The dating game is a game of chance and many people unwittingly go into it without preparation or thoughts of any kind. Of course, the presentation is important, the mood has to be right and you have high expectations of your date. Event despite all these preparations, we may still end up with nothing. So what gives?
The problem is that single folks can give off negative vibes to their dates. It is possible that you haven’t dated for a year and you may think that your super charming personality will mask the inner disappointments and desires that you have been covering up for so long. Well guess what, people are generally a lot smarter than you think and will pick up those signals. Okay, so you can’t be straightforward and blurb about how long you sit in front of a TV, eating munchies hoping this day would come soon. This would positively throw off the other person for sure. So what exactly is the trick to the date that would leave each of you wanting more? The trick is to supercharge your date. Here is how.
I refer back to the great book by Eckhart Tolle called the ‘Power of Now’. In this book he describes noise as anything infiltrating your mind that takes you away from the present time. For example, many people don’t want to live in their present time, they are constantly thinking ahead of themselves ie. what they are going to do in the next few mins., hour or day.
Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
Los Angeles is ranked as the third best city for singles by Forbes. A city loaded with singles, nightlife, arts and culture, the concerts, Universal studios, theme parks, beaches, hiking trails, the sun, rollerblading, boardwalks, the observatory, amazing restaurants, shopping malls makes it one of the most exciting cities to live in. The openness of most people and the friendly fit women appears to be the perfect blend to find a date easily.
The upscale nightclubs and lounges are known for their plush interiors and trendy music which are where the crowd gets unruly after drinks. The popularity of these clubs attracts the hottest performers and musicians in the trade. Lot of venues offers live music that adds a different charm to the place. The dance clubs are the place to get into the dance rhythm even if you have two left feet.
Los Angeles becomes the ideal place to make life so complete and fulfilling for LA singles. Find the right person to date and life is a scripted romantic Hollywood movie. The most good looking guys and sexy gals are residents here. The singles in the world dream to find an LA single as his/her partner. Each one searches for that perfect mate who will be the soul mate. Dreaming is easy and fun but converting the dream into reality is tougher here.
The most vibrant city in the world where one can enjoy life and relax is facing a major issue on the dating front. LA singles ratio is totally skewed. Women have more options to choose their men so it is tougher for her to decide who the best choice is. This can be an advantage for the singles world to find the handsome hunk as a date or soul mate.
Distance is another barrier to intimacy. LA has an area of about 5000+ square miles and a traffic that will drive you crazy. Even if you have found the cute person you are interested in, the traveling time and traffic pose an obstacle which one has to overcome every time. The energy that is required to overcome this potential barrier is called the activation energy. Science tells us that higher the activation energy, the less the chance of the occurrence of the event so people are less likely to meet often and thereby remain casual friends. Attempting to meet somebody 20 miles away is like traveling along the length of Manhattan twice or crossing a few borders in Europe! If you are in another state then don’t book your ticket for LA but any nearby airport to sideline the traffic and commotion at the airport.
The more often you meet the stronger the relationship develops. With distance most of the people are in cars so there is minimal probability of meeting someone regularly as you don’t tend to walk around the block. Traffic and bottlenecks force even the most punctual people to miss an appointment. Showing up late makes you feel unworthy even if it is beyond your control. This develops into disinterest which evolves as a dating obstacle in LA.
Though LA is loaded with lots of entertainment and attractions like night clubs and museums the fun factor for the LA singles is much lower as compared to other cities in USA. Night life shuts as 1 am and there is lack of public transport too. If one has to drive back home, one has to keep sober. Lesser the party time, lesser drinking which amounts to lesser fun. This also keeps people away from partying and increases the stress levels.
Each person needs a companion to relax and unwind. The best option for LA singles to find a companion from amongst the ones who are in close proximity either at work or school. Relax and unwind with your friends and enjoy the beautiful city of LA whether you are single or dating. Open your mind and think of the various options available, enjoy your hobby, form a group and reconnect with real people.
Wednesday, May 30th, 2012
We live in a male dominated society where there is a common belief that a husband’s job is to earn money and take care of financial needs of the family and the wife will take care of the home and raise children. But, nowadays we see that in many urban families both the husband and wife are working to meet the demand of their expensive lifestyles. This is fine until the husband earns more or equal to the family and household outgoings however, when the wife starts earning greater than husband this becomes a matter of concern and at times can be the reason of a relationship breaker.
So if you are an independent single women and looking for a potential partner then there are top THREE tips that you should not overlook:
1. Know what you want
The key to successful relationships is to know what you want from that relationship. Note down what are those 5 qualities you want in your future partner. One of them would definitely be, does equal or greater earning power of my partner matter to me? Or shall I be comfortable dating someone who makes less money than me but beautiful at heart?
2. Do not set unrealistic expectations
You can afford a luxurious car, a big apartment and even an exotic vacation with your friend and even shop from your favorite expensive branded store. If you think a guy who was not afford of all this will not make you happy can keep you single more than you want to. You need to see the individuality rather looking at the materialistic aspects of life.
3. Understand the level of maturity
Dating a woman who has greater career aspirations than a man in not wrong but, if you keep flaunting this it will make the man feel less worthy. If you do not to know the level of maturity of men you are dating, avoid going to too many expensive restaurants, buying expensive gifts rather let him pay for a weekend movie ticket or allow him to plan an outing and appreciate his efforts from the heart.
Comment of this article and tell us what you feel would make your man that special for you and maintaining a balance in the relationship.