Posts Tagged ‘financial success’
Monday, April 23rd, 2012
A woman who is in her early 40s will have some initial difficulty in attracting younger men especially if they do not have the financial success that some men could compromise with. The assessment of personality in most cases by men do not come until they are well into the relationship. In this case, the relationship could have a stronger footing based on a union of trust and likeability rather than just on financial grounds. It could be the reason why many women in their late age do so much to look young and to attract the younger men into their lives. A majority of men would always like to leave the option of having offsprings with their partner and older women of 40s have a lower chance of conceiving as a result of menopause. Still this does not preclude many men to pursue older women who belong to that category but women need to exercise caution when selecting their partners. The men should be in the relationship for the long-haul unless the woman too is looking for a frivolous short-term fun and excitement.
For the average man and woman amongst us who are not fortunate enough to have the financial success that some enjoy the selection of dating partners becomes even more distinct and may even be construed as gender discriminatory. Older women will find it even harder to attract potentially young males and older men will continue to enjoy their prowess with younger ladies. Looks alone will not be sufficient for older ladies since younger men will also have more energy and enthusiasm for life and many older women will not be able to keep up.
Does one end up accepting their own fate in the gender cycle or does one always do something about it? I believe it depends on an individual’s personality and the way one goes about judging their own youth and old age. I am of the opinion that one should depart oneself from the constant thought of growing older and the negative thoughts that this brings. Life should be about learning, experiencing different things, excelling yourself in mind and physical activities. If you find yourself not having enough time during the day to do everything you want to do then you are probably heading in the right direction.
Sunday, April 22nd, 2012
What are the gender differences in the thinking behind this new modern world we live in especially in the areas of dating, relationships and marriage. We know that women are just as capable as men to take on high-flying jobs and to excel in it if they so wish. There are some truths when a high caliber woman chooses to date a younger man and this can happen often. However, if money and power are the primary requirements to acquiring a potential mate then one could say that it goes against the grains of traditional thinking that all relationships are built on ‘love’ and not materialistic stuff. Perhaps many of us take ‘love’ for granted and nowadays with so many places to visit, dine and buy toys, the financial
requirements of a relationship takes more precedence. The internet and the TV is a big window to so many possibilities and opens the way to an active and materialistic life but often require much financial backing. There is a balance but that is also addressed with many offerings of zero down and no payment required till next year. If we are not too careful we at the mercy of digging a financial hole that we cannot get out of and no ‘love’ in the world can get us out of this sticky situation. When you rejoice the whole world rejoices together and when you cry, you cry alone. Maybe there is a lot to be said for a relationship built on strong finance.
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