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Get small snippets out of the book that specifically targets areas for improvement. For example, you may be okay in approaching women but you feel tongue-tied in keeping the conversation flowing. Here, your focus should be the kind of topics you can talk about, what stimulates a conversation and how to listen to cues for conversation.

If you are like some men where you find it hard to approach any women, then you probably need to work on boosting your self-confidence. This won’t come easily to you and you may need to practice with friends and get more support as you slowly work towards improving your self-esteem. In time, you will likely look back and see that your ‘fear’ was completely baseless and you may even kick yourself for being that naive.

Another aspect of some self-help books could relate to your dress attire. We have posted a few blog posts on this subject, just do a search on the search bar on the right of this page. The danger in this department, is that you can become too comfortable in the clothes you choose and it may reflect in your personality. Try to present an appearance that shows some style as well as comfort which will make you all that more approachable by the opposite sex.

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One Response to “Are Self-Help Books good for me? - Part 2”

  1. Pankaj says:

    God and Jesus. The best is available we shloud all use them. And a date? we shloud seek a spouse or potential spouse. God knows us inside and out and even the very number of hairs on our heads. So why do not more go to God/Jesus with things like this and more?Ask not, get not. Many never ask God for anything so they get nothing for not asking. Asking makes it our will to have God do it for us, if we do not ask we are choosing to do it our way or ourselves.So take this and all things to God/Jesus and let them get it for you, or get the things of the world like the ones of the world. Do as the world, reap as the world. So use Jesus he is ours now.bless you.

  1. David says:

    How shocking! You mean all these years I thought that women preferred shy, ugly and nerdy types, but I was wrong?

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  1. KIM says:

    very interesting,

  2. David says:

    Are you going to do the top five in every city? That could take a while.

  1. David says:

    Young men do not want commitment? Who knew?

  2. KIM says:

    I AGREE WITH SOME BUT NOT WITH ALL

  3. Carilou says:

    I never looked at it that way. I can see why that would scare men now that I think of it. I am just naturally a supportive, caring person and I always wanted to know what was going on with my significant other, not to be nosy but because I cared. Very interesting to me

  4. Lais says:

    Who knows if all the young men don’t want commitment???

  1. David says:

    On the other hand, there is probably a reason why she has only been a friend from the beginning.

  2. KIM says:

    very interesting

  1. dcole050401 says:

    Is the one from the doctor supposed to be funny? I would never use that one unless I was trying to look like a total jerk.

  2. KIM says:

    can not agree more

  3. Erik says:

    the photographer one was good, the rest lame

  4. Kiera Love says:

    I like the photographer one the best.

  5. SikaHoney says:

    most of these were lame. the photographer one was the least lame.

  1. David says:

    Things to avoid? Avoid the office romance.

  2. kevinrow says:

    if you do start a office romance. there is no set things to avoid but the main thing is that your happy and the only way is to talk and be true with each other.

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  1. David says:

    The one that kills me is the female teacher prosecuted for having sex with ADULT students. What a total miscarriage of justice!

  2. David says:

    Kids these days are starting way too early.

  3. renee says:

    kids start way earlier now days in the world most played game and I am sure some of them wish they hadn’t because they are not mature enough to handle it and the consquences

  4. Christian says:

    I feel that kids pick up adult habits…. with a more sacred adult sexual world. kids would have no choice but to follow.

  5. Jenny says:

    The kids do what they see on TV’s most times and don’t take as a bad habits

  6. Richstone94 says:

    I think plain old curiosity has a lot to do with it in many cases.

  1. David says:

    Your attraction wears off in a week? Wow!

  2. vpablue93 says:

    I would probably try not to be emotional but sincere.

  3. Wallace_xU8z says:

    Love is based on a well-rounded knowledge of a person’s strengths and weaknesses. It’s hardly surprising, then, that love is much more than a feeling. Love is, among other things, “long-suffering and kind. . . . It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.” And love makes a person act in these ways based on knowledge—not on credulity or ignorance.

  4. Willamtel33 says:

    As I see it from a perspective over time of 30 yrsi or more. It seems to be a function of age.
    When I was younger 20_ 30s all decisions were primarily a result of emotional feelings thus heart felt actions.
    Now days it doesnt mater how cute she is ,it comes down to the logistics of living and surviving the
    Multitute of daily problems.
    Thus a woman for me has to be very down to Earth in her thinking,this high maintenance crap should
    Be in the past by now.

  5. enoughcry says:

    One have to consider everything before taking decision…it should be varied and must be flexible enough to cover emotional satisfaction and intelligent needs as well
    Decision both taken is never wrong nor right…Remember it takes two to tango..

  6. stephens says:

    i go for intelligent

  7. wrightcole says:

    A pure definition of love is “insuring you life under someone care, not because they can’t hurt you but believing you are save in his/her hands” its only normal that one should have knowledge of his/her spouse but every relationship will succeed more when it is handled emotionally.

  1. David says:

    A teenager younger than 18 will not wait to join a dating site. They will just lie about their age. LOL

  2. ZachC says:

    I agree David, they wont wait they will lie about their age join up anyway

  3. April says:

    Been there done that, David. Haha

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  1. Soum says:

    Good article

  2. lindsay says:

    i am new i believe i would find someone on here i am ready

  3. lindsay says:

    i am single cause i have not been looking but am ready

  1. David says:

    Smartphone? What’s a smartphone? LOL

  1. David says:

    OK, Honey Nut Cheerios in milk. Sounds perfect!

  1. deepak says:

    How io pick the perfect perfume?

  2. David says:

    I saw an ad for a perfume with pheromones in it that supposedly attracts the opposite sex. LOL

  3. eula says:

    eula…

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  1. David says:

    Yes, I agree, please dress appropriately.

  1. David says:

    I don’t get it, you think having local dating sites come up first is a bad thing?

  2. Jumpdates says:

    It’s not bad but, removing the search results of those sites that are operated all over the world is minimizing the opportunity for singles.

  1. David says:

    Facebook? What is Facebook? LOL

  1. David says:

    I understand some of these. You want to hide your medical ailment, I get that, but you want to hide your personal comment? She is fat? What?

  1. David says:

    Marriage is an outdated concept.

  2. Ryan says:

    Marriage is Gods will for human races

  1. David says:

    In the USA there is also the marriage tax penalty. The government does not want you to get married!

  1. David says:

    It would be nice if my community had a dating site.

  1. David says:

    There is no “art”. Just propose, she will say yes or no.

  1. David says:

    Really? Do not date someone that makes you feel terrible about yourself? Who knew? LOL

  1. David says:

    Yoga is definitely good for you.

  1. nc41251 says:

    sitting in front of a fire place. only the two of you sipping on wime and enjoying each other.

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  1. 1Looking says:

    Valentine’s is usually celebrated together as a couple swaping gifts like chocalates balloons bears.Men usally gets a woman some diamonds to show her how much he loves her.I was asked to marry my husband on valentine’s 3 years ago and it has worked out so far.

  2. dcole050401 says:

    I don’t know anyone that takes a vacation for Valentine’s Day. lol

  1. dcole050401 says:

    So, dating in India is no easier than anywhere else in the world.

  1. dcole050401 says:

    How odd. I have never thought of an ex on Valentine’s Day. They are an ex for a reason.

  1. dcole050401 says:

    So, those of us already out of college are out of luck.

  2. Dorsey_07 says:

    Im not in college, and hence why Im on the dating sites.

  3. SaintNeil88 says:

    College dating is “puppy” love and generally will never stand the test of time

  4. dcole050401 says:

    Puppy love, OK, that was funny! LOL

  5. rednsassy86 says:

    College romance is all sweet and everything but what happens when its time to graduate and start doing different things and moving to different areas.

  1. dave says:

    this is indeed educative

  2. dcole050401 says:

    Emotional dependency is not just bad in the beginning, it is bad at any time.

  3. Malika says:

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  4. sydney perry says:

    That’s right but i believe the first most important way to spoil your date is to be honest in everything you discussed that will serve as the foundation of trust .

  1. dcole050401 says:

    Patience young one, patience! LOL

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  2. travis says:

    Wish I was in Australia when I was 18

  3. travis says:

    Wonder how many dui they have Australia in a years

  4. Ann_tI6j says:

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  5. dcole050401 says:

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  6. cindy says:

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  2. pneumaticman says:

    Some good advise in general, the part about “unwinding alone” making one into an alcoholic was a little odd as this would only be true if alcohol was the only way a person could “unwind”, the walking, mindfullness, exercising etc, all could be done without someone at first until that someone is finally found.

  3. m_vyas says:

    Good info. Many singles know already but they tend to ignore it. thanks for reminding.

  1. tenuta92 says:

    I always meet online dates in public places and have a friend go even if that friend is a table away.

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  3. patricia says:

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  1. Santos_bvIw says:

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  2. bobphil51 says:

    Teen love is awesome but the older they grow, the better they will become.

  3. dcole050401 says:

    I liked it better when they actually updated the blogs.

  4. Jumpdates says:

    Thank you dcole050401 for your comment. We are doing our utmost best to update our blog. Hope you continue to visit and read our posts, warm thanks!

  1. Angie_rsgZ says:

    I believe that is in every country in every culture..and no it’s not just men it’s women too, i myself have a problem with it, i luv being in a relationship i just can’t seem to give myself completely. Some say it’s because i have been hurt so much but others would say that i just don’t know how to trust period…who knows???

  2. dcole050401 says:

    I liked it better when they updated the blogs.

  3. giftlove says:

    I am happy about finding a real nice single

  1. Jumpdates says:

    honesty a smile and making them feel their best

  2. Jumpdates says:

    Just being yourself

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