Posts Tagged ‘dating advice’
Getting the Dates You Want - part 1
Friday, January 25th, 2013
You will remember one of our recent articles which talks about how to get more dates, simply by meeting more people..The trick is to be around people to get more dates
All it takes is to get yourself into many gatherings, events and anywhere where there are plenty of people. However, for some it doesn’t stop there. If you are confident about approaching new people and chatting to them then your chances of getting dates will increase considerably. There are groups of people, men in particular who are seeking more advice on this subject since they are not exactly the Don Juan in this department. Here we talk a bit more about this.
Getting the Dates You Want - part 1
The first task as you can guess is to meet as many people as you can and then to get dates. You have crossed the first important hurdle of where you are presenting yourself to all these nice ladies or gentlemen. Keep in mind that first impressions can count a lot, so be wary about your appearance and if you are a man, try to get a woman’s point of view on your dress attire. Surprisingly ladies also need some input in this area and they can ask opinion of several friends or relatives to get more insight into their dress sense.
Your next aim is to dismiss some of the myths that has be perpetrating around society with regards to finding mates. These are stuff like ‘love at first sight’ or ‘mr or mrs is waiting around the corner’ and believing in destiny.
To be continued….
Tags: dating advice, singles
Are designer labels really necessary to boost your self-image - part 2
Tuesday, January 22nd, 2013
Buying luxury items for the sake of looking good can echo a self-image that is not in line with your character. It is possible that many people will look at these people as being superficial rather than having any depth. Many do so with the aim of attracting the opposite sex however, it has to be done with a balance. If one is able to afford the clothes, car and any other luxury items without having to over stretch themselves financially then it will be reflected in their personalities. You need to consider which of the below categories that you belong to that says much about your personality.
(1) You have a tendency to overspend on designer labels and names.
It is possible that you have an infatuation for looking good and representing an image that is more on the surface than what lies underneath. You may be able to attract the people that you want initially but the long-term projection of your relationships will not look good. Think about it for a moment, if you are a man and you wan’t to attract that sassy looking lady then your chances of keeping that woman will be slim. She naturally thinks that this is your own weak self-image and you are trying to be a different person to who you really are. Once she finds that out, you will be dismissed but not on the basis that you can’t afford the expensive products but more because you have a weak self-esteem. Some men in this category will have success in wooing many women but they will inevitably end up with women who were wooed for those superficial reasons in the first place. Keep in check your spending habits and you can be far more attractive and attract the right kind of individuals without trying to distort your self-image.
Tags: dating advice, relationship help
Songs & Beauty of Nature - Inner Peace & Tranquility
Sunday, January 20th, 2013
A recent KQED 9 channel aired a very moving documentary on nature and how it can speak to us. Although many of us take nature for granted we cannot explain what it is about nature that moves us and in ways unimaginable. This documentary which I encourage you to see can bring some moments of inner comfort and joy to those of us who are feeling lonely.
Earth Songs - duration 46:09 STEREO TVG - Channel KQED 9
http://www.kqed.org/tv/schedules/weekly/
The documentary took two years in the making. I was surprised to see some images of mountains that I have seen elsewhere before and realized that other people have the same ideas of beauty as I have. When we gaze upon a mighty mountain range, we can all associate it with the power of nature but yet we can feel a sense of belonging and peace. The mountains and surrounding waters are two entities that bring some balance and harmony in ways we struggle to understand. A famous writer once said that ‘we stand like a mountain’ and ‘flow like water’. Perhaps the enormous presence of the tall mountains and the rippling still waters are a representation of our own lives.
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It is comforting to know that we are not alone and nature has a way of reminding us of the beauty that the world possesses. I go further to say that nature is all around us, the little things around us that we are sometimes oblivious to. Next time you need some lifting, look around you and you will see that the abundance of nature has its place and so do you.
Tags: dating advice, dating help
Listening to your inner voice in the dating scene
Wednesday, May 16th, 2012
No doubt you have heard of the classical advice when it comes to dating and this ‘just be yourself’. There is more to these words then meets the eye and this is the inner voice that is inside all of us. Being yourself, implies that you are at your own being at the moment of time and the conversation that will naturally flow through you while you are with your dating partner. On the other hand, if the conversation is not going well as expected, this could also be a sign of a mismatch.
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There are very good reasons for why our instincts and inner voice should be something to pay attention to and as many philosophers including the modern thinkers of today have also come to the realization of the importance of harnessing these powerful signals. Like the famous quantum activist Dr. Amit Goswami would say ‘be-do-be-do-be-do…’.
In essence being yourself and then doing follows the natural invisible hidden forces that moves all of us in a particular direction. By tapping into this energy allows us to accomplish higher goals, something which many modern philosophers believe today. As a consequence of this state of mind, we also happen to tap into a far more underlying force that can guide us in a way that we never thought possible. If we are awake to this mode, we also have continued signals coming via an ‘inner voice’ which steers us in the right path and one that ultimately benefit us.
The ‘inner voice’ will point out facts that are not obvious but they instinctively pop into your head of some particular event or even a flag that warns us of the dangers ahead. In dating and from our previous discussion on ‘conversation and assertion..’ relies indirectly on this important fact. You inevitably find some signals which may be opposite and contrary to your listener’s thoughts but they are all designed to benefit or protect you and one has a duty to act upon them. When you come across feelings such as this, try to nurture it and pay attention and see if you should take more actions than usual as a result of it.
Tags: dating advice, dating partner, feelings, instincts, Listening to your inner voice in the dating scene, love, state of mind
WHAT ONLINE DATING CAN DO FOR YOU
Tuesday, April 5th, 2011
100% free dating personals are a craze today, with many people taking the online route to find their perfect mate. To begin with, free dating sites are uncomplicated, which makes online dating the preferred choice. It is easy to navigate your way through completely free internet dating sites. Websites like www.jumpdaes lets you create a comprehensive profile and filter viewers so that those who match preferences can have access to your profile. There is no pressure to meet up with a potential date as well. Take as long as you like and resort to instant messaging and emailing before you take the final plunge to meet. Builidng up a line of communication over a period of time eliminates the stress and worries when first dates usually meet. Besides, you won’t have to worry about ways to impress your partner since you get to know each other better.
WHAT ONLINE DATING CAN DO FOR YOU
Free instant messaging dating helps you to broaden your social network while you spend less time figuring out who could be your potential partner. However, make sure to orient yourself with the risks involved before you foray into the world of online dating. It pays to do your research well and look for credible free dating sites that have been around for some time. Read jumpdates reviews and you will find a lot of positive feedback from its ever-growing list of members. Remember, love had no bounds which means you may even end up with a partner from a foreign land. However, the choice of location is all yours.
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